Name change.
This afternoon we were doing a big shop at the supermarket. I had written a list (we had agreed it together in the car) and we were walking around getting stuff. Near the end DH decides that I am not doing well with the list (saying what needs to be got) as a few things had been missed off. We are both tired and he is feeling a bit ill. Out of nowhere he then shouts at me 'You're doing terribly with the list', and a few people look over. I feel absolutely humiliated, like some kind of abused wife (which I am not). DH then apologises, but just a 'sorry', then doesn't speak to me in the car and later says he thinks I'm being way over the top. I still feel really upset and that it is just unaccceptable to speak to me like that, particularly in public. He thinks I'm playing the victim and just blowing it all up.
AIBU?