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To think that really boring people see highly creative people as children?

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Heroine · 23/01/2011 22:07

I AM JUST SAYING..

I had a weird thing happen, I am quite creative and like decorative stuff and cool quirky things and someone who I thought was on the same wavelength gave me a real dressing down when I showed her some cool japanese quirky notebooks I bought - with that sort of stylised fluffy, hearty, pop=art style, she sais the thought it was childish and unprofessional. (!). i thought it was just fun..

It made me think that all the people who make the rules about what is 'professional' are really just all the really dull tedious unimaginative types and that is why they think creativity is likely to diminish performance - because they can't handle it and it freaks their boring little heads out.

(I know this might seem to conflict with my 'women who run fluffy novelty businesses' thread, but I'm just saying (and not explaining well) that the dull people seem to never be interested in anything, and seem to make the rules, and the people who went wild and got into interestingb things in their teens and 20s but had to droip them because the dull run the world, are seen by the dull people as 'only having childish ideas'.
It seems a bit sad - does anyone see what I mean?? It seems to be getting worse as women have more serious jobs - I get it but as I'm a bit 'consultant-ish' I can ride above it, but it seems that somewhere there is a book that says you can't be clever or get things done or reliable unless you think and dress in a dull boring way.. and that makes no sense to me..

sorry for going on, but I think there somethin in my uncomfortableness at being thought of as childish when I think of myself as an adult who has some sense of humour and creativity.

Am I being unreasonable??

OP posts:
Heroine · 25/01/2011 16:57

oh don't be silly I have been for a walk (nearly) naked in the snow and enjoyed it immensely...

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PonceyMcPonce · 25/01/2011 16:58

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TheCoalitionNeedsYou · 25/01/2011 17:06

Were you wearing shoes though Heroine?

HoodedCrow · 25/01/2011 17:15

Heroine Grin - sans notepad obv

Heroine · 25/01/2011 17:21

More like this..! NOT safe for work!

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Heroine · 25/01/2011 17:21

[bgrin]

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RobynLou · 25/01/2011 17:29

I once paraded around cambridge town centre starkers with two men, also starkers (one of whom became dh many years later) with flowers painted on various parts of our bodies. we wore shoes though, and it wasn't snowing, so obv we're v dull...

actually we were just silly drunk 20somethings who had nothing better to do....

TheCoalitionNeedsYou · 25/01/2011 17:29

Hmm - rule 34

tethersend · 25/01/2011 17:33

Heroine, I'm worried about you, poppet.

rockinhippy · 25/01/2011 18:23

I thought from a few of the OPs responses after I'd put my own twopenneth inGrin...that she was actually testing out her silly immature "teen angst" character for a book she's writing??? Confused

Orissiah · 25/01/2011 21:08

This is such a funny thread Grin

Articulate · 25/01/2011 21:46

I can't believe I just spent 40 minutes of my life reading this thread. I vaguely hoped something interesting would come of it, but no.

Notepads, my arse.

MordechaiVanunu · 26/01/2011 17:46

OP are you David Brent?

He was very musically creative and would have cringingly also have described himself as cool or quirky.

You sound like a comedy writers dream.

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