"Why can't we be proud to be British and offended if people want to live here but hate the British?"
No one has mentioned hating the British except you. I can't imagine anyone but a nutjob hating the British and wanting to live here. We are not talking about such people but about a group of women who feel they would like to meet amongst themselves at a total cost to the public purse of £1k.
I would LOVE for you or anyone else to define National Pride, with or without capital letters.
Mrsruffalo
Tommy Cannon is/was an unfunny comedian.
"What's it to you?" Well, it has a potential impact on the validity of your point. If, for example, you are a British or Commonwealth woman and spent a fortnight in Canada, that's a bit different to six months in russia or France and even more different to settling for life in, for example, Egypt. And, in any of those settings, the further you are away from a healthy, wealthy and high-prestige ex-pat community - even if you never "get involved" with it - the greater the potential alienation you will feel.
It struck me as a pretty fair question but obviously it is entirely up to you whether you answer.