busted

[oopsydear]

It would appear that I have been busted Have had a bit of a moan on another thread about feeling bit hard done by due to someone elses behaviour, and have just had message from them that I think is too much of a coincidence to not stem from them reading that thread iykwim. How to proceed?

deny deny deny

Oo-er. Not sure really.
Can you dig for a little more info from them, just to clarify?
Good luck!

have you namechanged, OP - can we play guess the thread?

go with deny/its all a coincidence

Namechange and SPILL Godammit!

NOW!

We NEEEEEEED to know....

lie.

is it the bridesmaids dresses one?

What did the message say?

where you winning the thread though.. or did everyone think you were being unreasonable! that is the important bit...

you can hold the moral high ground if you were being reasonable

Is it the big 18 month one ?

Well by starting this thread you would of totally confirmed their suspicions...

Noo, it won't be that one, there is no love lost between that OP and the object of her vent thread.

Shhh woman, we'll never find out the gossip otherwise

Are they pissed off? Or were they being unreasonable and have now seen the error of their ways?

Maybe they saw it and realized it was similar to your recent situation and saw sense? Doesn't mean they knew it was actually you.

Well until they read this thread!

I know loopylou! And durrr...of course I've namechanged! I was winning the thread if that's the right term for it - I was more kind of canvassing opinion really. Not about bridesmaid dresses tho. Am still slightly flustered however, and am racking brains to think now what else this person (who I don't really know very well although she does seem nice, it's just this one thing was getting to me) now knows about me and mine

You fool, you gorn and confirmed it !

Tell us the issue and we will tell you if you are reasonable or not

is it the "my kid did not get invited to the party"! thread?

Is it the school run thread?

Erm......

So it's not the liftshare - because the OP doesn't think she's nice.

It can't be the bully at toddler group one either....

I think you need to spill before we make this worse than it is

Pm me too

Apocalypse - I know, I'm an idiot! No one else here tho and I didn't want to say to one of my RL friends "I often post on this forum and now I've gone and done this..." because I'd rather keep MN and RL separate, you know?