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I smacked my son today.

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Catnao · 11/01/2011 00:41

I am not a big believer in corporal punishment at all, but I did smack him. He's ten.

He has a very good friend, who he stays with, (parents also friends of ours, and we like them very much), who are a bit more liberal than us about their kids' viewing habits, and I know they are letting them watch "The Inbetweeners" - I don't really mind that tbh - they are great people and have great kids. But I think this programme is a bit much for 10/11 year olds myself.

Anyway - I had a bit of an argument with my son today, as he wanted to go to the shop in the village - usually fine - but it was dark, he didn't want to go by himself in the dark, and I couldn't be arsed to take him myself to go and buy sweets. And my son called me a "fcking cu*t".

And I really got cross and in the end I smacked his leg.

I feel really bad about this now, although my son was fine (obviously I didn't actually do him an injury), but I shouldn't have hit him.

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Catnao · 11/01/2011 17:06

Thank you for all the replies. I did apologise for hitting him this morning before I went to work, but explained how upset that language had made me and how shocked I was that he had used it etc etc, and that even if he didn't know what it meant - he knew it was swearing didn't he? He agreed that he did and apologised - I explained what other sanctions would be in place if he ever did something like that again, to ANYONE - by which point he had kind of got to the "Yeah, yeah, can I go and have my breakfast now?" stage, so I left it at that!

(Re:In betweeners - I don't know how much of this show he has actually seen, he seemed very vague on details of it! But will mention that I'm not happy with him watching - they will be fine about that I know. (If they even ARE watching it!).

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controlfreakyhohohohohohoho · 11/01/2011 17:16

blimey! am really shocked by the number of happy slappers on this thread. sympathies op, can understand why you smacked him when he said that and can also understand why you felt bad afterwards. good for you for apologising. all of you who are saying he deserved / would have got a smack round the head / face / a lot worse from them Shock what sort of "lesson" do you think that would be?? as i said, blimey!

GabbyLoggon · 11/01/2011 17:35

Yes control, perhaps they dont need to be taken too literally

Very little smacking in public these days..

It may well be handed down within families.

Max Moseley does consenting adults. "Gabby"

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