to want this song at our weddiny

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it the song me and me ex always listen to together however i love this song always have always will even before the ex.

i really would love this song at our 1st dance.

iabu to want this song

What song?

savage garden ~ truley madley deeply

If you love the song then no yanbu. If the words resonate with you(rather than it invoking your ex) then go for it as for you listening to it with your ex as long as it was the meaning that touched you it makes no difference. As far as I am concerned if you mean or feel what you mean on the day that is all that matters.

YABU to want that bag of shite song full stop!

Depends what your DF thinks about it? I'd find it weird if dh and his ex had a "song" and he played it at our wedding tbh. But depends on both of you really.

Yabu. Find a new song that belongs to you and your new husband.

we had that song at our wedding!

i think i would feel a bit weird about having a song that was mine with an ex thought, does anyone else know? How does your new dp feel about it?

I had " nothing I can do about it now" By Wille Nelson.

Fabulous

We has "Praise my soul the King of Heaven", The Lord's my Shepherd, "ALl that I have", Panis Angelicus and Widor's Toccata to walk out to. . (Yes it was a full Nuptial Mass).

Does your other half know the history of the song for you, and would it upset him? And would you be thinking about your ex rather than your new partner?

Only you can truly answer the question so while I dont think YABU to want it , it may BU!

I didnt have it at my wedding but I did put it on my wedding video as one of the songs I chose. My first dance was Maria McKee Show Me Heaven, like you I had it chosen long before I met DH lol.

AMothersplaceisinthewrong I would have liked to attend your wedding. Sounds beautiful. Particulary Panis Angelicus. Takes me back to school days.