DH has a bit of form for flirting. The facebook flirt, wife doesn't understand me crap, flirting with my mates on nights out etc, recently started to go out to 6 am and seems to always have his phone in his pocket or be using it. Had a big bust up couple of months ago about his drinking a d going out and being in no fit state to play with kids day after etc and very suddenly he has stopped drinking completely. Not a drop And he us very proud if himself as I am although I have never said he should stop altogether it was his choice.
He seems to have changed over the last few months, like I said the phone is never far away, he's lost weight through not drinking and he's got a lock in his phone a nd facebook. I have always said that due to me catching him being way to familiar with 2 other women on f b he needs to be completely transparent.
He left his phone on the bed side this morning and send one if the kids to habit waking me up so I had a look and found a message to his SIL saying give xxx a snog from me oh and feel her leg lmao! This is about SIL v pretty and skinny sister and I have gone mad. He doesnt think he's done anything wrong and says it's just an in joke between them all. Am I being gulible and over reacting. I think he's being a twat tbh and I feel really hurt