to wonder what a Dogging Necklace looks like?

[ChristmasTrolleyRage]

I wasn't aware that there was an identifier for those who enjoy this sport.

A friend told me the tale of admiring a colleague's unusual necklace to the hilarity of other colleagues who later explained what it signified in hushed, but giggly tones.

I then couldn't follow up the conversation, and have decided to see what the minds of MN know about this......................

What do the knuckle shufflers do with the jack Russell? Maybe they have to take him with them, or the wife would get highly suspicious.

What happens afterwards? Do they all sort of wander off, or is there a buffet?

Yes heard about the pampas grass (maybe on MN???), and now always can't help wondering when I see it, incongruously towering in very small front gardens

nr - lol @ the buffet!

No Northern - buffet is for swingers. Am assuming a picnic could be optional though, thereby making full use of the facilities. Personally I'd steer clear of the digestives in this situation.

Am assuming poor Jack Russell has to endure the whole scenario, or wonder round peeing on the tyres of the Mondeo.

Ah, I see. Yes I can see how it might be difficult to rustle up vol-au-vonts in a rustic setting.

The Jack Russell possibly would find other canine companionship. I suppose dogs invented dogging really didn't they?

You are my oracle of unusual sexual practices now Binful

Northern did you once partake of the thread involving queries into the swinger world - where the whole conversation reverted to the food that would be served on the buffet etc...?

I think the oracle is most likely Solid. Strange that she hasn't joined this thread.

Perhaps she is busy buttering a load of sarnies....

Binfull-No I must have missed that one.

Most things with me do seek to come down to the food though..

seem I mean

Good God

How bizarre.
Is that not a bit cold and uncomfortable?
Do they arrange meets ahead of time or are there well known spots where old codgers are likely to find people in flagrante for this purpose.

DH tells me women turn up there randomly to have sex with strangers.

This is very bizarre too. My response was 'how do you know if they are clean?'

To which DH responded 'they are probably not'.

I have been mixing up dogging and cottaging, I think.

Did you know that there is a function on the TomTom you can download to help you find dogging spots? I did not fully understand the relevance of this when I first saw it in the list, but now I do.

My iPhone is blocking that site, could someone please tell me what jewellery it is in case I have some.?

Dogging sites. Laurie, it's a chameleon on a branch, yellow branch for straight swingers, pink for bisexual.

Cottaging is gay men meeting in public toilets for sex.

Boffin I saw a link on a thread once with a link to a website that not only gave a list of place to go 'dogging' by area but also a little blurb on when was the best time of day or night and what 'type' pf couples went dogging in that area.

One of my local dogging sites is named Swingy Lane.

Is dogging really a common thing? Or is it more of a kind of urban myth?
I just can't imagine anyone being able to do something like that. How embarrassing.

I was highly suspicious of our new neighbours who named their house 'Swingville'.

Turns out they're big jazz fans (and very nice people too).

There's a well known viewpoint near me that is anpopular spot forcdoggers. Tempted to recommend a visit up there to the ILs next time they are here

A friend of mine pulled into a local cinema car park during the day to feed her screaming new born only to find several occupied cars and lots of headlght flashing! She let the baby scream for five minutes and made haste!

Had never heard of any women going alone - sounds ridiculously dangerous - AFAIK it would normally be exhibitionist couples giving a live show for voyeurs to enjoy (and show their [ejeculatory/ stiffness] 'appreciation').

In some cases, if the female was keen, she might offer 'something more' to one or more spectators, presumably using a condom, or giving a BJ [yuk].

BoffinMum - "Is that not a bit cold and uncomfortable?" - one would assume so this time of year, but during late summer there are no doubt times when it is fine weather and good evening light too.

For both comfort and safety, however, an exhibitionist couple might prefer to put on a show via webcam, which is precisely what someone indicated she was going to do just a week or two ago. She did have some negative comments, however, mostly because it was a fantasy of her partner (who had apparently not been particularly attentive in the bedroom for years - so she got flak for being a participant in his fantasy, the only way he seemed capable of getting hard).

^^

God save me!!!

Apparently there is a code of conduct for doggers:

flashing lights means 'you may approach'

Internal light on means 'we are doing it, you can watch but not approach.

Flashing blue light on top means you're nicked matey.