I suppose I'll get flamed as an ungrateful wench here but I'm interested in what other people think.
I'm 37 weeks pregnant with my first child and starting to feel like I'd quite like the baby to come out now as feeling rather hefty and uncomfortable. DP and I both have big families so this baby is going to have lots of people to love it, which is great 
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I love giving and receiving presents at Christmas but I'm also happy for people not to bother as I'm not going to see many of them. It's not about money or materialism as I'd be happy with some bubble bath or a bar of chocolate (which are my best friends at the minute!! 
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Unfortunately, DP has told his family not to bother with presents for us and just buy something for the baby (sob!) I've also received something from one of my brothers which rattles in a distinctly newborn toy kind of way...
Now, I'm delighted people are looking forward to the arrival of our baby and want to buy things for it. BUT AIBU in thinking that's a crap gift for me and it shouldn't be passed off as one? I feel like I've been forgotten as a person and subsumed by this baby before it's even been born 
Am I an ingrate who doesn't deserve such a family? Or can I feel sorry for myself that some people have forgotten that I'm a person, not just an incubator?