My DH was playing on the computer when I left for work at 8am, (he works nightshift),I asked him to put the washing on the rack when it finished. 4 hours later I return home and he and washing are as they were when I left them 
. I registered my displeasure - washing still in machine/ no snow shifted in drive/rubbish everywhere etc.- He starts flouncing around and took out recycling/shoveling snow etc., very soon after I had more to add to bin and there was no sign of original rubbish, when I asked him where it was he said in ordinary bin as recycling bin too difficult to open owing to frost (it opened easily enough for me!) He hasn't spoken to me since. Is he a lazy B or am I a nagging witch?