AIBU to think that my toyboy moving in on my space is not such a great idea and I am perfectly justified in growling at him when he gets in my face?

[mercedesofthenorth]

I am fiercely independant (and stylish ) and I've lived alone for the last 13 years. Recently friends have fixed me up with a new man. He is 26 years younger than me!!! He moved in next door and now in to my space but I'm not sure I can bear it. Friends have noticed tension. I heard one saying 'He wants to play and she wants to tear his head off.'.

What should I do. Shall I freeze him out till he gets the message. Or should I thaw and get frisky

I don't understand the question

You want permission to be a bitch?

I can't help my nature! I am a bit vicious - lethal in fact

are you in fact pretending to be a zoo animal who doesn't like the mate they've been given?

NOw that's rude!

You sound lovely.

I'll have you know I'm very popular!

Cant you just tell him to back off in a nice way then?

Why don't you try to talk yo him like a human being?

Or alternatively just play games and hurt his feelings. That sounds like a healthy way to maintain a relationship

dont know why you'd need to "freeze" him out if you're a popular person you obviously know how to talk to people in a decent manner!

And if you're already feeling this way about him i'd just be nice and say bye completely now.

hihghopes - I'm not sure it would be that easy to get shot of him now he's here. I could try though - I've got some heavyweight weapoins - with teeth

well Mercedes from the way you sound i think he betterwould take notice of anything you say.

how old are you both ?

Give him a fish

not 66 nancy! i was joking.is that not allowed.you can see from my earlier posts mercedes should be civil and adult about it!

oh-nancy66 i am so sorry.i thought you were having ago!please accept my apologies.

i am flicking between posts.i think i might go and namechange now!

grin Curly

She looks like a mumsnetter to me!