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to think it's weird that a woman just blatantly stared at my tits..

83 replies

RoxieP · 12/11/2010 11:57

whilst talking to me briefly at work today! She couldn't get her eyes of them...

And I checked, there's no food spilt down my top or anything.

And I am not wearing a "too revealing" top or anything

And my rack really isn't that impressive - even in pregnancy.

Was really quite unnerving...

OP posts:
MoralDefective · 12/11/2010 11:59

You should've asked her she wanted a feelGrin

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/11/2010 12:00

Could she have been jealous? Are they super perky, very roundy, pointy, erect nips?

LaurieScaryCake · 12/11/2010 12:00

Even if they're not that big they might be a really nice shape Wink

Mine are a bit crap now but I'm always having a quick look at nicely shaped ones (and trying to figure out if they're fake)

LaurieScaryCake · 12/11/2010 12:01

The nanny in the new Sex and The City film has some seriously fabulous breasts

colditz · 12/11/2010 12:01

Maybe she's gay.

frgr · 12/11/2010 12:03

Maybe she was admiring your jewellery or top? i've done that before, stared wondering where someone might have bought something, only for them to realise i'm looking, cue a shift look away. not in a pervy way!

DomesticG0ddess · 12/11/2010 12:03

are you wearing black bra under white top?

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/11/2010 12:05

Were your nipple piercings more obvious today

frgr · 12/11/2010 12:11

oh, oh, i've just thought of something else - does your bra fit properly? my mum always drilled it into me how important a well fitting bra is, maybe you have double-boob today and need to get a better one? Blush

BigWelt · 12/11/2010 12:13

Could we have a pic of them to see for ourselves?

perfumedlife · 12/11/2010 12:19

This remined me of an awful incident that happened years ago as I was walking through the city, shopping, alone. It was summer, I had on a short skirt, bare legs, sandals. I noticed this woman walking towards me and staring at me. As she drew level she put her hand up my skirt and grabbed me and then, quick as a flash, carried on walking Shock

I was flabbergasted. I stood in the middle of Buchanan Street, Glasgow, shouting at her back as she walked on. A few shoppers came to ask if I was alright. Was stunned for days after.

If she does it again, I would ask her what she is looking at. Sort of creepy.

notso · 12/11/2010 12:20

She was trying not to look at the massive spot on your chin Grin

Gay40 · 12/11/2010 12:24

Womem check each other out all the time. Even the straight ones.

kreecherlivesupstairs · 12/11/2010 12:25

Bloody hell perfumedlife.

Panzee · 12/11/2010 12:26

Oh I look at boobs. It might have been me. Sorry. Blush

perfumedlife · 12/11/2010 12:27

Confused I know kreecher, I still feel sick when I think about it. It was the fact she looked so normal, so middle aged and safe. I wish I had run after her but I was freaked out.

Bloodymary · 12/11/2010 12:27

perfumedlife that is awful Shock
I would have been stunned, to put it mildly!

perfumedlife · 12/11/2010 12:30

I think she must have been mentally disturbed.

I do notice if someone has a nice bust, in a nice way iykwim, but i never would stare. I wouldn't stare at anyone as its so rude.

deepheat · 12/11/2010 12:31

Isn't staring at tits relatively normal behaviour? Sorry. I'm a bloke.

Could there have been something trapped between them like a report you'd been working on? Maybe a small animal had crept in there for warmth and you hadn't noticed - a dormouse perhaps?

motherbeyond · 12/11/2010 12:43

deepheat..i have never written this before,and always swore i wouldn't,but,...LOL Grin

motherbeyond · 12/11/2010 12:47

my postman actually talks to my tits.like he's addressing them as people.
often,he just rings the bell to hand me letters he could have just posted through the letterbox...and then just chats away to my norks Hmm

motherbeyond · 12/11/2010 12:48

i see i said 'just' a lot there Blush

nickelbangBANGbang · 12/11/2010 12:50

I've found myself staring at boobs before.

not on purpose at all.
Blush

sickoftheholidays · 12/11/2010 12:52

I stare at womens boobs all day. Naked ones.
In my defence though, I'm a breastfeeding peer supporter so I cant avoid it really.

Sounds a bit wierd though.

mysteryfairy · 12/11/2010 12:52

I was in a meeting yesterday where one of the attendees had a top so low on that i could see all of her bra. I couldn't help staring. It was just so bizarre (and unflattering). However hopefully you're not talking about me as you say the staring happened today!