i have a sneaking suspicion EXp might turn up unannounced this evening. as we are all a bit under the weather with colds, we haven't left the house and have pretty much slobbed about all day. the dcs aren't even dressed. so the living room and kitchen are a bit untidy, there are dishes in the sink. on monday i raced around tidying when he phoned to say he was coming in but i just can't be arsed today. AIBU to just leave it and hope he doesn't turn up?