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To be annoyed at the selfish woman in coffee shop!

18 replies

fifitot · 05/11/2010 11:10

I am really pissed off. Being very sleep derprived with a 3 month old baby, I sometimes drop DD off at school and on way home, if baby sleeping pop into our local cafe for a nice cafeine boost and a read of one of the many newspapers they have for customers. It is usually the only time I ever get to myself in the day tbh.

Unbelievably the woman in front of me in the queue while waiting for her coffee gathered up 4 newspapers from the rack - the rest were already out - and then took them to the upstairs with her. No newspapers for anyone else to read selfish cow.

I couldn't go and ask her for one as had DS in pram downstairs but honestly! I am so tired and pissed off and really look forward to this little treat.....

Oh well poor me! I know I'm ranting and it's silly but she's ruined my little treat. 10 nights without more than 4 hours sleep and counting.........makes you unreasonable I guess.

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thelunar66 · 05/11/2010 11:12

YANBU... I would have chased her up the stairs whilst shouting... oi, can you leave me one of them papers please!

thisisyesterday · 05/11/2010 11:12

very selfish of her!

but i would have left baby in pram and nipped upstairs anyway i thinmk"!

i hope you still had a nice relaxing drink tho even if you had nothing to read.
i quite like people watching

DiscoDaisy · 05/11/2010 11:12

Were they all for her or did she have friends upstairs?

nickytwotimes · 05/11/2010 11:12

oh, i empathise.

i am also chronically sleep deprived and the little treats in my day are all that keep me going.

lollipopshoes · 05/11/2010 11:13

YANBU.

I think p'raps I would have asked one of the staff if they could rustle up a paper for me and explain that someone just took all of them upstairs.

plupervert · 05/11/2010 11:13

All the newspapers? That's unreasonable. But the cafe staff should have gone after her, not you; don't you even think about shifting yourself.

nickytwotimes · 05/11/2010 11:14

lol at 'did she have friends upstairs'!

jonesy71 · 05/11/2010 11:14

She's probably the one on her own taking up the whole area where the comfy leather sofas are too.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 05/11/2010 11:15

Yanbu it's the small things that tip you over the edge when you are exhausted!

FindingGuysMojo · 05/11/2010 11:16

YANBU

But there is nothing wrong with sitting on a comfy sofa if you are on your own jonsey71!!!!!!!! I don't see how one person can take up the 'whole area' Hmm

harassedinherpants · 05/11/2010 11:18

YANBU

It's the small things that keep you going and irritate the hell out of you when they're ruined!!

The woman was very selfish, but I agree that the staff should have gone and got them.

She must drink v-e-r-y s-l-o-w-l-y to get through 4 papers on one cuppa!!

jonesy71 · 05/11/2010 11:18

when they've got four papers spread out they can

Wink
horsemadgal · 05/11/2010 11:19

YANBU, I'd have shouted after her or asked the waitress/server to go after her.

fifitot · 05/11/2010 11:24

Good - glad it's not just me. The comfy seats were all taken as well - as usual but can't really complain about that!

I should have asked the staff tbh but didn't have the energy...

Still the coffee was nice as was the cake! She will have bad karma now, I know it! Thanks for cheering me up!

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JenaiMarrHePlaysGuitar · 05/11/2010 11:30

You need a smart phone so you can MN from the cafe, fifi. No need for newspapers then, you see Wink

fifitot · 05/11/2010 12:43

Good idea!

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PeachesandStrawberry · 06/11/2010 22:20

YANBU.

How inconsiderate.

PinkieMinx · 06/11/2010 22:23

YANBU - hope you gave her the 'look' - agree its the little things

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