to worry about who my friends are on Facebook?

[choufleur]

Had a friend request from someone who I was very close friends with for a very long time, but then fell out with about 5 years ago when she didn't think I'd spent enough money on her wedding present . She basically just stopped speaking with me (live a distance from me so didn't see each other very often), but had been extremely close friend before then and had grown up together.

Am I being unreasonable to worry about whether to confirm her as a friend or just decline her request.

I know I'm being silly really, but it's really bugging me.

Would you like to be friends with her again?

just accept, she may say sorry (plus then you can be nosey)

what did you buy her & how much did you spend?

I wouldn't accept if I still held a grudge

My husband did her photos for her, so all of his time on the day plus getting them printed and put in an album. Probably spent about £100 as they were hand developed to make sure the colours were correct etc.

I don't think I'm holding a grudge I was genuinely upset that she stopped speaking to me (was pregnant at the time so maybe I was a bit emotional)

oooh add her and go to her wedding album and say "nice pics, they look like REALLY EXPENSIVE professional ones"

I think that she could have apologised to you in the friend request. I think you should only accpet if you really want to be friends again.

That's very generous!

I think life is too short to hold grudges about something like that. If she was once a close friend I would accept. Mind you, if she had like 600 fb friends I probably wouldn't. I don't want to be there to make up the numbers.

Oh just add her to have a nosey if nothing else and lol @ ASecretLemonadeDrinker

Can see her photos without being her friend and there aren't any wedding ones there ASecretLemondadeDrinker.

Add her have a nose and then delete her