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AIBU?

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to worry people will get me mixed up with another mner?

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Eeeeeek · 22/10/2010 19:59

Have name changed for this, but a very regular long term poster here.

I have had the same mn name for about 7 years. Only v occasionally change if posting something delicate.

Every so often I will search my name, to see if anyone has responded to something I wrote or whatever (maybe after my posts have dropped off my "threads I'm on" thingy)
Anyway I keep finding people responding to another poster's comments but using my nickname (they are similar) and I'm often upset as this poster tends to write quite inflammatory stuff and obviously has a very different stance from me on things like politics, race issues, benefits, education....all those highly emotive issues.

SO my question is, AIBU to worry that people may think its ME who is writing this stuff? I don't want people to think I have these horrid (imo) opinions.

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MaudOHara · 22/10/2010 20:02

YANBU particularly if the poster is inflammatory - iiwy I would ask the poster to consider a name change - but if they won't theres not much you can do about it other than change your name

MaudOHara · 22/10/2010 20:02

Go on then tell us who it is [nosey]

SeaTrek · 22/10/2010 20:02

YABU

I rarely notice usernames, and if I do they are soon gone from my mind...I wouldn't say I am a 'serious' Mumsnetter though Wink.

MadamDeathstare · 22/10/2010 20:03

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MadamDeathstare · 22/10/2010 20:04

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SpookyMousePink · 22/10/2010 20:04

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daftpunk · 22/10/2010 20:05

Who are you? No point if we don't know.

LadyLatherOfIndecision · 22/10/2010 20:05

a guess

does your nickname involve just 2 letters?

No, please don't say, am pulling your leg

SuePurblybilt · 22/10/2010 20:05

Namechange. I have and it's fabulously freeing dontcha know.

TethHearseEnd · 22/10/2010 20:06

Oooh, think I might know who you are as noticed a post, thought it was yours (if you are who I think you are) and did a double take... hmm. Tricky. PM them and explain the confusion.

If they say no, namechange to something which incorporates your old name.

daftpunk · 22/10/2010 20:06

Wow, totally weird

YouGirl · 22/10/2010 20:10

I think I know who you are...incidenally this name I am using right now s a namechange...as I just posted an embarrasing AIBU thread.

I noticed a new user with a name very like someone who I have read a lot from...I knew the difference...it's obvious...have a namechanging thread...if you want people to now who you are and who you are changing to...start a thread about it nder your original name and then end it with your new one.

Eeeeeek · 22/10/2010 20:24

Thanks all.
No I'm not going to tell you my real mn name Grin and no it isn't just 2 letters!!

I think I may change it. 7 year itch and all that...

How's that for a name? 7YearItch?

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Eeeeeek · 22/10/2010 20:26

I can't, its taken Sad

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TethHearseEnd · 22/10/2010 20:36

7YearSwitch?

nemofish · 22/10/2010 21:08

7YearBitch?! I jest of course. Wink

SpookyMousePink · 22/10/2010 21:12

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7YearSwitch · 22/10/2010 21:33

7YearBitch was taken Wink, thanks nemofish

So have gone with 7YearSwitch - thank you very much TethHearseEnd Smile
and thank you SpookyMousePink for all your fab ideasGrin

Diziet · 22/10/2010 22:17

I'm impressed with all this name-changing, when I joined about a year ago it took me ages before I put Diziet in and it worked!!
I don't know if I could be bothered to change it, TBH!!!

maryz · 22/10/2010 22:28

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