to think that the brides coach the groom before going on don't tell the bride

[AuntiePickleBottom]

i think secretly they want that sort of wedding, but to the camera and family pretend otherwise

They would have to be a bit dim to not to that IMO. God knows what DH would have planned for our wedding of his own accord - men just don't think about some of the necessary things (you know, stuff like transport for guests between church and reception venue, weddingtainment for guests while photos in progress etc)

They must fo, as Zombie said they'd be eejits not to.