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To wonder why there is a ''divorced'' relationship status option on Match.com

10 replies

poshsinglemum · 14/10/2010 22:38

Surely if you are divorced you are now single.
It's almost as though being divorced is a label. Look at you with the failed marriage it seems to imply.

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ASecretLemonadeDrinker · 14/10/2010 22:41

I think it's just letting people you have been married... not sure why - maybe so you can weed out the still single 40 year old men? Grin

IggitheImpaler · 14/10/2010 22:59

It's a kind of legal status isn't it? On gov forms I think you have to put divorced if it applies.
For Match purposes, I would think previously divorced people might have similar issues etc - though having children more significant probably than having been married.
I wouldn't think anyone on Match is going to be judgey about past relationships, everyone there is still looking for Mr/Ms Right.
Wonder what a dating site would look like, if Mumsnet ran it??

IggitheImpaler · 14/10/2010 23:00

It's a kind of legal status isn't it? On gov forms I think you have to put divorced if it applies.
For Match purposes, I would think previously divorced people might have similar issues etc - though having children more significant probably than having been married.
I wouldn't think anyone on Match is going to be judgey about past relationships, everyone there is still looking for Mr/Ms Right.
Wonder what a dating site would look like, if Mumsnet ran it??

HeadlessPrinceBilly · 14/10/2010 23:28

I imagine it is for divorced people. Or is this a trick question?

booooooooooyhoo · 14/10/2010 23:30

i think a mumsnet dating site is a great idea, shall we pitch it to HG in the morning? or shall we wait for friday night bumsex threads to get into full swing? Grin

IggitheImpaler · 15/10/2010 23:23

MILLLIOOONS of men would sign up for a dating site that promised bumsex!
MILAF.com

Chil1234 · 16/10/2010 06:36

It's reasonable. 'Divorced' can mean a lot of things ranging from very happily single to having some bitter ex partner in the background making life miserable. Some (myself included) have gone out with people in the latter category, found it very tough going and would appreciate having as full a picture as possible.

aurynne · 16/10/2010 06:59

Perhaps they could offer two options:

  1. Divorced with issues
  2. Happily divorced
proudnscary · 16/10/2010 08:15

Aurynne, or: 'Divorced and up for frequent and rampant sex after 3 years of sexual drought'

That's how many of my divorced friends seem to feel!!

aurynne · 18/10/2010 09:55

That would surely be included in "happily divorced", methinks :P

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