condom found in husbands sleeping bag..

[Bubbles007]

Husband returns home from three day sailing trip, I find a condom in his sleeping bag whilst hanging it on the washing line after I have cleaned it. I asked how it got there and apparently it was an ongoing joke amongst the other married men on the boat. They kept moving condoms around. Am i being unreasonble by being uncomfortable with this ?

Grumble @ Billy's pacifist response to aggression

We moved into a house that had previously been several bedsits/flats, & still contained lots of the furniture (we agreed with vendor that she didn't want to be bothered having the house cleared, & some of it might be useful to us).

A (male) mate helped us with the move.

At some point, dh discovered that one of the departing (female) tenants had left behind a drawerful of underwear.

Mate subsequently despatched home to his dp oblivious to the dozen or more pairs of knickers secreted in his rucksack...

I think the 'forgotten condom in someone's pocket subsequently planted on guy in next bunk as a jape' theory is entirely more plausible than OP's dh up to no good on a soggy, sweaty, all-male sailing trip
tbh.

Clearly a joke, don't sweat it.