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to think that being a longtime MNer has turned me into a complete bitch?

59 replies

GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:42

Grin

I a complete misery nowadays. Posting all sorts of snidy crap. Have no patience and have just posted my first passive aggressive smily next to a bitchy comment.

I used to be so scared of the longtime mners nice.

What happened?

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MaMoTTaT · 01/10/2010 12:44

you became part of the furniture Grin

zingzillachinchilla · 01/10/2010 12:46

YAonlyBU if you are being a misery in RL too... that's my justification and I'm sticking to it

GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:46

LOL

The bitchy post which I am not about made me feel bad, just went on to the thread in question to apologise for being a cow, and the OP has called MN a sad, fat lot and called us a load of backstabbing bitches!

Oh dear...

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nameymcnamechange · 01/10/2010 12:46

I always think you are lovely

OrmRenewed · 01/10/2010 12:46

No you aren't. You sometimes agree with me so you can't be Grin

TheAtomicBum · 01/10/2010 12:49

Ah, some threads make us all irrate if it's an issue we take personally.

The question about whether or not it has changed you in RL is the main one, though. Are you becomming shorter tempered out there, or are you just learning to take your frustrations out in here? Is that really a problem if it is a coping mechanism in your life?

Reality · 01/10/2010 12:49

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Tippychoocks · 01/10/2010 12:50

I am also in grumpy mode with many, many posters at the moment and must be spending too much time Mnetting as every thread seems to be about the same bloody thing or bleating on about nothing in particular.

Getorf, maybe there's a place to get MN rehab and we can emerge nicer, huggier people?

CerealOffender · 01/10/2010 12:51

we need your high standards of hygienic excellent getorf. i have never noticed you being a bitch.

zingzillachinchilla · 01/10/2010 12:51

lol at reality

GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:51

www.mumsnet.com./Talk/relationships/1052873-why-so-many-mums-harbour-jealousy-and-blank?msgid=21552216

Please read this thread, it has made my day

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GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:52

Nah, am not a bitch in real life.

I like the idea of MN rehab. I think that would be Netmums Grin

I am not bitchy to any of you lovely lot, btw Grin just the fuckwits

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Tippychoocks · 01/10/2010 12:55

Netmums wouldn't have me I know and the tickers hurt my eyes. It's the darkened room for me or RSI from hiding so many threads.
That thread made me roar - how did she know you were all fat? Did you type fatly?

cupcakesandbunting · 01/10/2010 12:56

It hasn't made you a bitch.

It's made you a right cunt though.

GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:58

lolol

Reminds me of a Christmas Card I once saw, with a picture of a particularly sanctimonious Jesus on the front 'jesus loves everyone, except you, you cunt'

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TheCrackFox · 01/10/2010 12:59

I have recently adopted the passive/aggressive smiley. I am a complete cow nowadays.

CerealOffender · 01/10/2010 12:59

guffaws - i love telling people on mn they need a hobby.

GetOrfMoiLand · 01/10/2010 12:59

I so would love to send that Christmas card to Richard Dawkins.

Mind you, I bet he gets deluged with them every year.

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seenyertoeslately · 01/10/2010 13:00

getorf Her reaction was a bit of a shock, wasn't it? I was poised to offer some sympathetic comments but then suddenly we were all sad and fat so I decided not to bother.

cupcakesandbunting · 01/10/2010 13:00

Oh. CerealOffender, I think you may have told me to get a hobby once, you bitch.

CerealOffender · 01/10/2010 13:00

the passive aggressive smiley is my mn achilles heel. i can take most shite on mn but that really pisses me off

CerealOffender · 01/10/2010 13:01

and did you?

zingzillachinchilla · 01/10/2010 13:02

Thanks for posting link to thread - god, what a first class bitch you are! I think you should be ashamed of yourself. That poor, poor, ickle wickle MNetter definitely didn't deserve that. Let's all debunk to netmums. Ahem.

cupcakesandbunting · 01/10/2010 13:05

Mind your own you stupid bitch Grin

FindingMyMojo · 01/10/2010 13:06

I lost it with someone on here a while back. I felt they were totally out of order (in what I can only describe as a moral minority v judgy way) but still really I should breathe before typing & posting "F* You". In RL I would. Oh dear - Part of me didn't feel bad about it at all (unleash the bitch) but the more reasonable side took my ass off for a wee MN break to chill out & breathe. I guess that is what "msg deleted by MN" is for Grin

YANBU - intensive MN'ing does unleash the bitch from time to time - but probably it's needed. I mean we can't be all sweet & supportive & glossy all the time can we?

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