Am i wrong to not make changes to myself?

[amhavingabaday]

Am I wrong not to make changes to myself just for my partner to satisfy their needs?

I still want to know ifyou are saying 'they' to hide the gender of the prson who is making this request or if there are multiple people volunteering to give you oral sex if only you'd do something about your forest of pubes.

No just the one person - anyway 'the forest of pubes' are now 'garden of eden'. lol

It's not wrong of "them" to ask but would be a problem if you tried it, didn't like it and "they" couldn't accept that.

Personally, I don't mind a bit of a trim but usually get him to do it...

You had to bring Percy Thrower into it didn't you secondcoming??

I suppose it was inevitable

Veet it - it doesn't hurt or itch when it grows back

less ingrowing hairs too.

5 minutes - hairless foof. And you don't have to spread it all the way down - you have have a nice tuft.

MsHighwater - he does it for you, now I am impressed. Veet does sound like a more cost effective way, especially if it only takes 5 mins!

Veet or equivalent is the easiest way, shaving tends to lead to a rash which is very offputting to all your random fannylappers and waxing is just too much pain for the pleasure.
It's worth a try but it's also worth asking yourself what these partners are prepared to do for your benefit.

I find it pretty apalling that there is this pressure.

I know what your saying hairytriangle but you would say that lol

I would! Lol

It's not to satisfy 'their' needs then, as your OP stated, but in fact to satisfy 'your' needs.

Don't change a thing. Supposedly he liked you as you are at the beginning, get him to change something first and see if his tune changes.

Get him to shave his balls, or wax his back.

My DP shaves me on a weekly basis

He gets shave oil, hot cloths, new razor all ready so there is never a rash

Feels like a pampering trip to a sex maniac's hairdressers and the activity afterwards is always very, erm, "beneficial"

If you are very dark haired you may find that you have hair in places you weren't quite expecting it! It can be quite an upkeep job unless you're lucky enough to have fair/fine hair too...

That aside, I don't like the bald fanjo look at all. I think there's a strange juxtaposition between the requirement to have full, pert breasts and a pre-pubescent fanjo. Think it's questionable at best

Hang on hang on. Are you lot really telling me that Veet does not cause ingrowing hairs?

Mine has the razor run all over it every morning, not cos i want to be like a 7yr old or for any man, i just like it that way, ive never had any infections or ingrowing hairs, i also do under arms and legs every day too, i just dont like body hair.

OP if you want to do it, do it, but dont feel pressured into it, although, having said that, i did force ex boyfriend into the shower after i`d texted him to get it trimmed cos i was on my way round with a pack of razors. He did let me do it, just stood back and didnt complain, it took half an hour, looked fabulous, and for me it makes me want to go down there more often.

Ask him to have his foreskin removed to assist with oral ... See what his reaction is ;)

PMSL at this thread. Really, really funny. I've had a shit day and this has cheered me up no end. Fantastic humour, thanks everyone.

hairytriangle - we may share many a laugh here on in on MN, you make me howl!!!! pmsl

try it u may be suprised can aleays grow back,

i have the whole lot of and shave evey other day,personally feel cleaner,and have \NEVER had ingrowings etc

cant imagine going back to au natural

"hairytriangle - we may share many a laugh here on in on MN, you make me howl!!!! pmsl"

"try it u may be suprised can aleays grow back,"

the foreskin?

We're fully furry in this house. We've talked about it, and we agree we like it that way. Especially for women, what a novelty to say a woman's body is just fine in its natural state!

Get 'them' to do it. They will enjoy it and get the job done - win win.

OK clicked on here and wasn't expecting this conversation!!

How about something artistic?? A shape and colour??

Seriously I'd only do it if you benefit and FWIW a bit more oral would IMO be a benefit