to not want go on a 20 minute walk?

[rpickett]

My friend has asked if I want to meet up tomorrow at another friends house as she has double booked herself.
The problem is the other friends house is a 20 minute walk up hill which I would have to do with my toddler (2yrs) walking and my youngest in the buggy, which also includes a flight of steps which means draging the buggy up and somehow holding onto DS1 so he doesn't fall with no help and to be honest I can't be bothered to do this as I'm 31 weeks pregnant and already have had complications with bleeding, I asked if they want to meet at mine instead but always get told no its easier for u to come to mine??
The other friend is also pregnant (15 weeks) and does have a 3yr old but he would be in nursery but she never bothers to come to mine I always have to go to hers AIBU in saying no I'm sick of it being so one sided just bugger off?

Nope, YANBU

Be honest - tell her that actually, atm, given your advanced pg, hill, steps and toddler, it is easier of they come to you. And if she can't do that tomorrow, arrange for another day.

YABU if you use the words 'sick of it' 'bugger off' etc, just be clear, direct and pleasant about it.

I was thinking you were being a little wimpy until I got to the '31 weeks pregnant' - YANBU.

It might be easier for them if you go to them, but it's not easier for you! I think your friend is being unreasonable