Bit of background. My OH's possible cousin (lets call him Dave) is only possibly related because after OH's uncle died quite a few women crawled out of woodwork saying he was father of their kids which they never said before he died. This led to OH's granny becoming emotionally involved with 'grandkids' she didn't know she had and later some of the women admitted it wasn't true. Not Dave's mum tho she says dead man definately the dad of Dave which is why she "came round and robbed the money out of his room" whilst he was dying in hospital (her words!)
Anyway Dave does not work and never has he is not disabled just lazy and knows he is on to a good thing with benefits and using OH's granparents for money (who are old, disabled and can't afford it!)
Dave and let's call her Belinda (who also favours benefits over working) had a child a year ago - cue lots of sobs stories to granny who pays for lots of things for child. Anyway they have said how much better off they are (meaning in terms of benefits/family hand outs) since having baby and therefore going to have more Belinda now announces she is pregnant agin it makes my blood boil as me and OH can barely afford our two children and we both work full time!
AIBU?