ok logically I am - but bear with me here. Dh picking me up from airport or station ,wants to time it so he has to spend minimal time there and preferably not even get out of car

[brimfull]

aibu in feeling slightly insulted

if it was me i would arrive early and eagerly await loved one.

His attitude of wanting it to be as painless as possible smacks of being put out at having to do it in the first place and hence uncaring/can't be arsed .

We haven't had major fall out about this btw- he thinks I am mad

perhaps i am

blueshoes Fri 03-Sep-10 15:15:36
Do you travel a lot, ggirl?

am sure you didn't mean to come across so patronising

yes travel enough thanks

my DH insists on not leaving the house till he knows my flight has landed as 'they're always late'

i get a taxi instead cause at least it's bloody well THERE an i don't have to wait for it

YANBU I also love the anticipation of meeting someone at the airport/station. DH is the opposite and I'm always standing waiting for him at the drop-off/pick up point - no sense of occcasion!

YANBU. He's being practical (and a wee bit lazy), you're being romantic. You win hands down imo.