to think grown women, anyone over the age of about 16 actually, expressing lustful thoughts for actors/celebrities or men in the public eye, are just ridiculous?

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How can you fancy someone you have never even met?

Surely that is the realm of tweenagers, teenagers or stalkers!

I do find it very hard to stomach when supposedly intelligent adult women go all silly over some sleb or other, whether its Jeremy Paxman or Michael Buble or Robert Pattinson or Brian Cox ... or whoever.

YABU and missing out on some fun.

2shoes...

Snobear4000 pmls

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=www.student-direct.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/briancox.jpg&imgrefurl=year2008-2009.student-direct.co.uk/tag/brian-cox/&usg=__3llt4FNOo1jrMt_z" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">you mean this child

I remember when I was about 13 and romeo and juliet was out my friend and I were mad on Leo Di Caprio. Her mum was too and she ripped a picture out of 1 of our magazines and hung it above her and my friends dads bed.

It was there for months and we thought it was amusing. Looking back though they must have been having sex for months with that pic above their bed and once I thought of that it used to make me laugh even more! That is a true obsession.

YABU

Morloth phoar.........or how ever you spell it(I have mine on my profile)

2shoes, who is the tatt'd bloke?

agree KS is v v attractive

Dh wouldn't ever get any if I didn't feel my pants heat up watching tv in the evenings

sorky that is m shadows, lead singer with avenged sevenfold

Hmmm. I am a killjoy, then.

But ... but ...

When you fancy a sleb or someone from the telly then you are just fancying the way they look? And that's just a wee bit nonsense, isn't it?

NmNC, no, you either use their character's personality or you invent them an ideal personality.

Do you not fantasise about anyone then Namey?

Surely, thats the weird bit?!?

Like MillyR - you extrapolate their character from the character(s) you've seen them play, but their looks are part of it too. It's not like a real relationship, and it's not meant to be!

I had a sex dream once about Johnny Depp. It was amazing. I also had one about Simon Cowell and can report that he is an excellent lover. I felt a bit embarassed next time I saw him on X-Factor, like I had't called him after our great night of sex and had now bumped into him somewhere. DH thinks I am mad.

Sorky - this is my secret sleb crush! I am clearly not a very visual person . I cannot be at all interested in any person based on looks alone. Why can't everyone be more like meeeeeeee? fgs!

Taken too far, and by that I mean writing them letters, doodling your first name and their second name on your pad at work, or leaving your DH/P just in case when you hear they've split up with their partner, then yes, it is sad.

But as a simple object of lust to brighten up the daily routine, then YABU. How joyless life would be without the ability to do this from time to time!

Well namey talking isn't exactly what I have in mind when I see a shot like this.

You sound really dull OP .

For me Robert Pattinson sends me into all of a lather and I used to go jogging regularly round Barnes in the hope of running into him!

oh namey
don't be such a misery
i had a very nice dream about david tennant once

what's silly about fancying someone?

I find certain slebs attractive but have never gone so far as to majorly fancy any of them. I have to get to know them first.

The slebs that I admire and like the idea of usually remind me of my DP in some way. I think that gets me off the hook.

Robert Pattison and the Puppy just make me want to find a decent clean t-shirt for the boy and make him a sandwich and a cup of warm milk.

Yes it's all shallow nonsense but meh.

Having rudey dreams about celebs is far better than having rude dreams about the postie/neighbour/DH boss and having to face them in RL, when you don't even have a conscious crush on them

Can I just say to everyone who fancies him that Duncan Bannatyne gets really cross if you get his name wrong.