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AIBU?

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to leave for a good while?

110 replies

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 11:44

due to all the judginess, bitching, accusations of bullying and clicquiness if more than two people agree it's wrong to say things like 'fat people should be shot'? Have been followed around and called a bully on a thread i had hardly been on. Anyway don't care if AIBU, am off for some real life. Cheerio! Grin

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Lulumaam · 26/08/2010 11:46

ta ra chick !

CrunchyStarlight · 26/08/2010 12:00

See you soon. Sorry it has come to this though. Really hope to see you again.

IMoveTheStars · 26/08/2010 12:01

End of the Summer holiday's, innit Wink

Come back in a few weeks, it'll have settled down again

Tiredmumno1 · 26/08/2010 12:10

Aww fanjo, i hope it isnt the threads i have in mind that made you feel this way.

although i was on the verge of saying sod mn, but realised the nice posters actually outweigh the meanies.

hope you come back soon. take care

GetOrfMoiLand · 26/08/2010 12:19

Oh no Fanjo, just ignore the nobbends and stay!

dontdisstheteens · 26/08/2010 12:31

Fanjo, just seeing your name makes me grin! Come back soon.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 13:32

Thanks all.

Having just seen on another thread that I am again being accused of bullying and clicquiness as I ANSWERED someone who asked me what I was having for dinner, as I said I was going to get some food, I feel even more justified in leaving!

Feels great!!

Thanks for all your support over the years!

All the best Starlight, I will be back to SN board Smile

Byee Grin

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loopyloops · 26/08/2010 13:34

We'll miss you :(

tortoiseonthehalfshell · 26/08/2010 13:35

The fatphobic vileness is making me feel, literally, physically sick, Fanjo. Please don't go. I can't bear that it's even contentious to be on "this side" of the debate. I can't bear that there's a debate.

usualsuspect · 26/08/2010 13:35
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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 13:36

I seriously have to go, it's making me really stressed, and I am being followed around being called a bully, just because I have been here for years and dare to stand up to people..it's not worth it, have a lot of worries IRL and MN was supposed to be a support, not a further stressor. Sad

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Altinkum · 26/08/2010 13:36

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WhereTheWildThingsWere · 26/08/2010 13:36

No, don't go......

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 13:36

Hope it will settle down for everyone, if it does, eventually, I'm sure i will be back!

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zingzillachinchilla · 26/08/2010 13:39

Should we chase down the bullies who chased you around? Would seem strangely poetic. Come back soon

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 13:40

Thanks..going to disappear now as soon people will appear on this thread saying they hate attention-seeking flouncing and epic leaving threads Blush

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GetOrfMoiLand · 26/08/2010 13:45

Fanjo, seriously, don't let some arse make you feel you have to leave.

Email MNHQ detailing the threads so they are aware. I don't think they will be happy about people following you from random therad to thread accusing you of bullying.

FWIW I hate the accusations of cliquiness and bullying that happen every time a bunch of MNers who 'know' each other are in agreement.

But don't let it hound you out.

zingzillachinchilla · 26/08/2010 13:45

Well, you'd have to be going some to top the MNetter the other day who wrote an enormous diatribe about what bitches we all are on MN, straight after she took the advice offered and got the result predicted!!!

That was a flounce and a half! Grin

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 26/08/2010 13:47

am getting the accusations even when I know noone else on the thread.

Just time to step back for a bit Smile

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usualsuspect · 26/08/2010 13:52

Just ignore them ...I reckon a lot of them are the same poster just name changing ..

SoupDragon · 26/08/2010 13:52

God, this is so cliquey

[arf]

Anniegetyourgun · 26/08/2010 13:53

I'm fat, and I don't want to be shot.

I'm big enough to be a clique all by myself.

TheCrackFox · 26/08/2010 14:07

I'm not fat but I have found some of the other threads regarding weight issues as repugnant. I have decided to ignore those threads. I am thinking of taking a break too.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 26/08/2010 14:08

Fanjo am pretty sure that these trolls/twunts are either 1 person or a few people who have decided to come on here to cause hassle. Don't let the buggers get you down.

cornsillky · 26/08/2010 14:12

Haven't seen that thread fanjo. It'smad on here at the moment.

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