In thinking that when you pay for a service, they shouldn't be using you to promote themselves

[princesspuds]

Ok, please bear with me as this is also my first AIBU.

We have had our wedding booked for a while and were due to get married in 2011, circumstances changed and we had to postpone until 2012, most of our booking were great even though we expected to have lost some deposits we lost none at all.

Here lies the problem, we have booked a chocolate fountain company who have got back to us and said because out wedding is on a Saturday instead of the Friday it is more expensive.....Fair enough I suppose, what I am objecting to is the fact he is posting pictures of all the weddings he has done plus guests and bride and groom including full names, dates and place, AIBU in thinking that we shouldn't be used to promote his wedding as I don't want all and sundry looking at my wedding on FB when he is supposed to be booked to provide a service which does not include photography.

TBPF, it is making me think twice about using him now.

Morgan, I cant do that as he is only there for 3 hours, I wouldn't get all the important pics

Sparkle, he only did it becaus I booked a Ferrari to take him to our wedding venue, which he was chuffed about..........Then I dropped the bombshell that he was wearing a kilt

princesspuds I completely understand your reasons for not wanting your photo taken by him, that's absolutely your decision, I just meant that you have no reason really to be bugged by the fact that he has photos of other people on there.

They might have asked for him to do this.

If you make it very clear to him (and even ask him to confirm in writing) that you do not want him taking photos, then I still think this is a non-problem.

D

YANBU i had some professional photos done of my DC,there was a bit on the form about permission to use the photos on her website,i just crossed it out,she was fine with it.