Because i am being judged and i am pissed off about it.
DD has gone to her fathers for 8 days.
I have used/am using this time to go out and have as much fun as possible.
Cinema, meals out, pubs, friends, shopping, drinking, lots of sex and laying in bed all day ( on my one day off)
Im bloody knackered from it, but ive not had a whole week to myself before and DD is coming up for 5. I never get to go out on a evening without the hastle of a babysitter..
Im just making the most of it.
I have been judged by work collegues, friends and some family. That i should be doing things round the house and not being so hedonistic.
That if they had spare childfree time they would do the garden, or tidy their childs room. Or that they just couldnt be apart from their child that long so it would just never happen.
I am going to tidy my childs room. But not until the day she comes back. And im going to have a lovely tea in the oven for her, and we will have a bath, and read stories and cuddle up and have an early night.
Im just pissed off that people seem to think its ok to judge me for having a little bit of fun and that im a shit parent because of it.