is he being unreasonable ....

[stepmumtoone]

or am i just turning into a nut job?
just flipped out because DP is going to paint his mums other house so she can rent it out beginning of sept.
this would have been the first time we have been alone together in about 11days with all of this going on www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1015760-to-want-to-just-give-up-on-everything (sorry don't know how to link) i just wanted him to stay and be with me for a while. am i completely nuts or is he BU i really dont know but i cant stop crying!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrggggg

No, you are not being unreasonable!

With everything that's going on, a holiday should be the last blinking thing on his mind!

Collar him tonight and explain, even if that does mean telling your MIL about your MC.

So sorry for your loss and I hope things are looking up in the hunt for your DSD.

he said he cant get out of it now, hes just being nice again, someone let her down and she could'nt go alone, i know v v selfish but i wanna go to my house and just say fuck them all :(

YANBU. It is not selfish to want to spend time with the one person in the world who has also just lost this pregnancy. I agree with Ginny. Explain to DH, explain to MIL and ask for what you need. Go home if you need to but I would make sure that you have LOTS of support there. You might just feel more lonely otherwise.

He just keeps repeating that he cant get out of it

told him i was going to talk to my MIL this evening unless he can sort it out because i want to see what she says