True you cant legislate against them VH: but we must be aware of them and not assume that any voucher system would solve it.
adn back to the OP but from a more personal angle:
'OK, so how would YOU change the welfare system?
I;d employ a carer's and disability advisor who actually did something (becuase there may be one but not one I ever encountered) and if that person couldn't be me (the ideal) they might actually be able to help find decent childcare for the boys, and help me find voluntary work to get my CV back together where not being able to do evenings and needing appts off doesn't make me too unattractive to bother.
That's get me off welfare anyway.
Which'd be back to the start.
Then i could use my own money to buy fruit and not want a plasma screen or smoke, which'd be no change in reality but an ego boost for me.
becuase actually, when you'#re sat at home not knowing where to turn, and all teh sdupport services are being made redundant, it's actually quite to know where to go for help or how to make any changes. AFAIK there could be a CM two doors down 9well no, only pensioners here) wanting a particularly aggressive asd kid to mind but how would I know without that link?
Know what else would help? Less legislation for tenants: ours prevents me working from home. Shame, i;d love to be an SN CM myself, or could just sell the jams and baking I love doing at famer's markets. not allowed though.
Maybe as well as penalising etc we could look at ways to help those who actually want to work? Not every solution has to be a cut does it? And then the cuts can be less coz more people are working anyway.