to be pissed off with the oh (tmi)

[mumof2children]

i have finally gotten the courage to see a doctor over itching in the gentical area, and bleeding after sex.

i booked an appoinment over 2 weeks ago, making sure his rota fitted around the appoinment, so he could have the chidren incase the GP needed to do an examination down there.

well he decided to take the offer up to go in early, just to finish early..which now he has to do...this is not overtime so no extra income would come in or i would understand

Arse!

Re-book your appt and tell him under no circumstances is he to be unavailable to have the kids next time.

Does he realise what the appt is for?

yes, he know i am off sex because of the issues.

since january the most i have had a break from bleeding is 2 weeks..i'm on the implant, so he thinks it all down to that

YANBU rebook appointment and tell him this time he WILL stay home. and good luck having done a similar trip (other end and for a while looked like i had bowel cancer so scary) it is not a visit you want kids along too

Just take the kids. Either they are small enough to just play on the floor and really not be interested or they are old enough to wait in the waiting room for you for 10 mins.

But yes, he's a twat.

I would take them tbh as Chipping has said they will be otherwise amused, there won't only be the GP there but a nurse as well. So she will be able to be aware of what they are doing.