to insist my DH removes the cat from the bedroom when we have sex?

[Miffster]

Well, am I?

It's not like she stares or anything. Mostly she just sleeps. She is old, and spends 90% of her time asleep on our bed, or on a mat next to the bed.

I feel a bit bad chucking her out and she only ends up coming back in again, but I am also a bit put off by having a third party present. Even if it is a cat.

Presumably you mean before you have sex rather than when?

YANBU. Apart from anything else, you might get carried away and roll on her by accident.

minipie. YANBU. Our cat used to stay on the windowsill while we were at it and I could see the look of distaste on his face. Indeed, it was a cat's bum face.

soon there will be mners along to tell you its disgusting, you are abusing your cat and threatening to call social services

or i guess it woudl be the RSPCA

This is the reason why our cats have never been allowed to sleep in our bedroom!

minipie

Is this called catting?

Our eldest cat was nicknamed 'cattus interruptus' and banned from the bedroom for ever after the claws incident

Hahaha oohh dear, mine hides under the bed and after sits on top of the wrdrobw qitg with a cat bum cat face :D

LOL at catsbum face.
Kick it out!

Your cat is a perv. You should be charging it to watch

I did mean before we had sex, not during.
I suppose there is all sorts of potential for pussy jokes, but even so...

Wannabesybil - we've never had a claws incident, but there was the memorable occasion when the cat walked up dh's back, whilst we were mid-coitus, and peered inquiringly at me over his shoulder.

The cat is invited to leave the room now, on the rare occasions when we have sex.

I used to have a budgie in my bedroom when I was dating my husband.
I used to make sure the cage was covered up before we got up to rumpy pumpy

LOL!

Kids are worse than cats.

wonder if pets could be put in new family planning bit... effective to put you right off

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At dw house when we just got together

being cheeky in her bed
cat crawls into bed and starts pawing my bit and pieces

piss myself laughing
no more shagging both of us laughing our heads of