Not to let OH go to a lap dancing club

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OH has been invited to a lap dancing club with his work colleagues. He doesn't want to go (phew) as he thinks it is smutty and degrading and he thinks he's "Above that sort of thing". Anyway I told him I wouldn't let him go even if he wanted to.

Is that being unreasonable? I think married/partnered men that go and leer at naked girating women 10 feet or 2 inches from their face is a form of cheating and shows a pathetic character.

I don't "let" my DH do lots of things - I won't let him have another motorbike, I won't let him take a job in Saudi , I certainly wouldn't let him go to a lap dancing club, if that makes me controlling , tough.
Actually, if he really, really wanted to do something, he would and he would talk me round with reason and compromise.

Op is right though, it is pathetic for men ( especially married ones) to want to do this.