To be soooooooo cross with.....

[seeker]

... with another mother at school? Fete on Saturday, everyone shattered Saturday evening so we stacked all the oddments on a classroom, and I said I'd come in early this morning to sort it out.

Got there at 7.45, dragging practically still asleep ds who had sat up to watch the football - to discover that she had been in earlier and finished the job already. Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!! How passive-aggressive is THAT!!!!!!

So the job was done, and you didn't need to do it? Perhaps thanks would be in order? It would have been nice for her to tell you that you didn't need to drag yourself in, but maybe she'd just finished and was heading home before contacting you?

Maybe she didn't realise you were going to do it?

Unless there is more to this story in back history, URBVU!

Maybe she thought it would be a kind thing to do for you? A nice surprise? Maybe she miss heard you and thought u said 'we'll have to come in early'?

Why do people always jump to negative assumptions, especially regarding other mums!?

Does she have a history of being passive-aggressive? Because if not, I'd just be grateful that it was done and I didn't have to do it!

I don't think it's passive aggressive on the face of it.

I meant to say that I KNEW I was being unreasonable - sorry, forgot to add that bit in my post! And I have sent her a thank you text.

But she did know that I was going to do it - we discussed where I would put things.

She really should have let you know that she was going to do it.

update.

She replied to my "thank you" text with "Thank you for turning up".

I may kill her later.

i am so so so scared of the PTA after reading MN

think I will follow eleanors example

after reading "thanks for turning up" OP yanbu

why not text back "you obviously did not think I would eh! have more faith in me next time please, cunt"

maybe dont call her the c word....

LOL

I've calmed down now - with a bit of luck I won't see her til late in the week!

Don't be put off the PTA - it's usually lots of fun, honestly!

this kind of thing is why i resigned from pta in a cloud of smoke