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34 hours sober

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StartingOverIn2025 · 07/01/2025 11:00

I'm doing it. I have been sober for 34 hours. How pathetic is that to be cheering myself for, but it is the longest I have been sober in probably the last 6 months. I have downloaded a support group app, and have my first virtual group this evening.

I didn't hit rock bottom, but I want better for myself and my family. I can't let history repeat itself. My father was alcoholic too and it was pure hell. Solidarity to anyone else going through similar.

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Seaside1234 · 19/01/2025 19:24

13 days is awesome! Now you know you can. Go again tomorrow. You're either winning or you're learning xx

coastergirl · 20/01/2025 02:40

@StartingOverIn2025 no need to say sorry. I've had a few blips. But I'm using the Try Dry app, and looking at the calendar overview makes me see how far I've come. I was drinking heavily every day previously, and that's changed drastically. I'm trying to focus on not slipping back into old habits. Please try not to be too hard on yourself, you're doing so well!

StartingOverIn2025 · 20/01/2025 11:18

Thanks for your kindness, I feel really embarrassed and weak and disappointed in myself. It was an impulsive response to frustrating news. I'm so cross.

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StartingOverIn2025 · 20/01/2025 11:19

I didn't even really enjoy it. No hangover though so that's a plus.

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FUBAR77 · 20/01/2025 12:39

Counting days is a good way to track your progress but so is also tracking how many units you’ve saved your liver and calories too - and just keep counting those from now as it will spur you on more. You got this OP 💪🏻

saveforthat · 20/01/2025 13:36

I had 2 glasses of wine in a restaurant on Saturday, didn't want them and didn't enjoy them. Just trying to be sociable. Back on the wagon now.

StartingOverIn2025 · 20/01/2025 14:39

saveforthat · 20/01/2025 13:36

I had 2 glasses of wine in a restaurant on Saturday, didn't want them and didn't enjoy them. Just trying to be sociable. Back on the wagon now.

It's hard isn't it sometimes.

I wasn't even being sociable, I was being petulant and I self sabotaged out of temper. I was cross and frustrated and lashed out at myself. I didn't really enjoy it either and the embarrassment I feel today serves as my reason to not do it again.

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Seaside1234 · 20/01/2025 21:24

To show that much understanding of yourself is admirable. We're all human, and long-standing behaviour patterns take time to recognise and change. Hang on in there x

StartingOverIn2025 · 21/01/2025 06:51

Thank you. I felt much stronger yesterday, and my resolve remains strong today too.

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GladiatoooorsReadyyyy · 21/01/2025 14:54

Can I join you please @StartingOverIn2025 ?
I was doing dry Jan, lasted less than a week (again). Had a bit of a heavy weekend and still feeling rough now. This is my day 2

StartingOverIn2025 · 21/01/2025 21:29

Of course @GladiatoooorsReadyyyy! Wishing you all the best

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