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15,000 Kids And Counting - On Channel 4, starting on 3rd April

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OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 27/03/2014 22:10

Heads up folks, Channel 4 are doing a new adoption documentary "15,000 Kids and Counting"

Series Description - Child protection levels in Britain are at a record high. Over 15,000 children were waiting to be adopted in 2013 - twice as many as five years earlier

With unparalleled access to the entire adoption process, this series follows social workers, foster carers, birth parents and adopters as heart-wrenchingly difficult decisions are made about the future of some of Britain's most vulnerable children

Episode 1 is on 3rd April at 9.00PM, is called The Decision

The adoption process begins with the most difficult decision of all: the decision to remove a child from their birth family

The first episode in the series follows the social workers whose job it is to take children away from their parents and recommend whether they should ever return; and meets parents who are desperately fighting to keep their children

Episode 2 a week later - The Search

This episode follows the search for adoptive parents for a two-year-old boy and a three and seven-year-old brother and sister

With the added challenges of having slightly older children, siblings and a child with possible health issues to place, the task for social workers Annette and Jackie is a massive one

With the future of these children in their hands and recently set government targets to meet, they struggle not to become emotionally involved as they strive to find adopters before time runs out

I'll certainly be watching, looks interesting

OP posts:
Fusedog · 03/04/2014 21:46

Candy they do
I was a foster carer for 7 years this is towards the end both these families have had children removed before so the process is often more swift seconed time around as you already proven you are not up to the task

How long should a child wait for ther BP to get there shot together

duchesse · 03/04/2014 21:47

They had to agree with her at that stage- saying anything else would have been beyond cruel in the state she was in.

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DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:48

I've caught up with the _Chat thread - well done Candy for explaining that these children can't wait. I think you're going to fit in just fine here. Grin

candycoatedwaterdrops · 03/04/2014 21:49

Exactly fuse, if this were 'only' (not to make light of this obviously) a housing issue or a DV issue, it would be far less complex. It's obvious that these situations have escalated too far to be resolved by adequate housing.

Polkadotpatty · 03/04/2014 21:49

No-one on chat is taking all the babies yet, but the first mention of "chemical castration" came pretty early on. In all fairness, the others sound like they're really trying to understand the vulnerability that has led to some of the relationships.

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:49

I thought exactly the same when she said that, Name.

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:51

Bless Emily. She seems lovely. I really hope that she's able to get away from him and get herself on an even keel.

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:51

Heartbroken hearing Emily talking about how it's all about her daugher's needs Sad

Hels20 · 03/04/2014 21:52

Look at how poor Emily sits when she is next to Matthew. All hunched - like she is a non- person.

What a brave girl - but how sad.

mrsballack · 03/04/2014 21:52

Bless her indeed. She's so young. I hope she can get some sort of help to make something of her life

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:52

Poor Emily :( She reminds me of someone I know who is a fabulous mum, but she isn't in a relationship with a total fuckng psychopath :(

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:53

But chat has the first - they all want babies they can mould

Groan

Reduce it to that

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:54

I was just coming to say that, Lilka. Babies we can mould?! FFS.

mrsballack · 03/04/2014 21:55

Oh yes. Here we go. Adoptive parent bashing begins in chat.

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:55

I'm going to respond to that on the chat thread

candycoatedwaterdrops · 03/04/2014 21:57

Don't worry, gang, the random chatters do not want to rescue the baby but the birth mum in this case!

Velvet1973 · 03/04/2014 22:00

"Seems very unfairly stacked against the parents. What incentive do they have to turn their lives around? None."
Uh so keeping your child and being a good parent is not an incentive then? Wow!

SignoraStronza · 03/04/2014 22:02

Polkadotpatty just because I have mentioned the desire to prevent that 'man' from ever procreating again, doesn't mean I don't give a thought to the vulnerability of the baby or her mother. I'm sorry I didn't make that explicity clear and I do understand that it is not so 'black and white' or 'simple'. I assure you that I really do understand better than you might think.

morethanpotatoprints · 03/04/2014 22:11

I think I know Emily. A chill came over me when I saw her, I believe she went to school with one of my dc.

Would she have been allowed to keep the baby if the idea to dump her bf was forth coming, or was she incapable of managing?

Adoptive parent bashing Shock How the hell could somebody bash adoptive parents. The world is mad.

hackneylady · 03/04/2014 22:15

I worry about this as a lasting televisual legacy for those children of their relationship with their birth parents. It will be possible for that child to find later on Youtube that their mother didn't show up for their last contact.

Separately, I can't find this infamous chat thread?!

Lilka · 03/04/2014 22:21

chat thread is here - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/a2044485-15-000-kids-and-counting

morethan - we get bashed all the time. If it isn't the anti adoption brigade, it's age of child, special needs, contact etc etc

Polkadotpatty · 03/04/2014 22:21

It's a complex and emotive set of issues Senora - apologies if I've misrepresented you, and I do think people are all either trying to understand more, or explore the issues.

flightywoman · 03/04/2014 22:22

Nicely said Lilka and Devora.

MrsBW · 03/04/2014 22:30

F**k me. A fairly balanced program about children being taken into care.

Who'd have thunk it??

Off to look at the chat thread.

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