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15,000 Kids And Counting - On Channel 4, starting on 3rd April

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OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 27/03/2014 22:10

Heads up folks, Channel 4 are doing a new adoption documentary "15,000 Kids and Counting"

Series Description - Child protection levels in Britain are at a record high. Over 15,000 children were waiting to be adopted in 2013 - twice as many as five years earlier

With unparalleled access to the entire adoption process, this series follows social workers, foster carers, birth parents and adopters as heart-wrenchingly difficult decisions are made about the future of some of Britain's most vulnerable children

Episode 1 is on 3rd April at 9.00PM, is called The Decision

The adoption process begins with the most difficult decision of all: the decision to remove a child from their birth family

The first episode in the series follows the social workers whose job it is to take children away from their parents and recommend whether they should ever return; and meets parents who are desperately fighting to keep their children

Episode 2 a week later - The Search

This episode follows the search for adoptive parents for a two-year-old boy and a three and seven-year-old brother and sister

With the added challenges of having slightly older children, siblings and a child with possible health issues to place, the task for social workers Annette and Jackie is a massive one

With the future of these children in their hands and recently set government targets to meet, they struggle not to become emotionally involved as they strive to find adopters before time runs out

I'll certainly be watching, looks interesting

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namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:10

If I wanted to be you would that be a useful internet relationship for you?

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:15
Sad
namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:15

Oops. Killed the thread by being disturbed stalker. Not the first we've had round here eh?

Fusedog · 03/04/2014 21:15

Marked my place

PrincessPotsie · 03/04/2014 21:17

The programme is do sad. The poor baby.

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:20

disturbed stalker. I prefer more of a great minds think alike analogy. Grin

DH is on the phone whilst I'm trying to watch.... The TV is LOUD.

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:20

I feel so sorry for that poor woman. Emily is it? He's terrible and she seems really lovely and so vulnerable...

candycoatedwaterdrops · 03/04/2014 21:21

I've noticed there are very few men in safeguarding children teams. Most of the men on my course have opted to work with adults. I'm currently in on placement in an adult MH team and the women to men ratio is 50-50.

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:23

I really feel for Emily

mrsballack · 03/04/2014 21:23

Matthew isn't coming across well is he? I understand that it's hard for him but he's illustrating just why he can't be allowed to care for his child

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:24

He's not at all. He's terrifying.

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:24

That's him in a meeting with professionals. What's he like at home with that poor girl?

TheScience · 03/04/2014 21:25

I'm worried enough about Emily, I don't see how a fragile little baby could be left with Matthew.

duchesse · 03/04/2014 21:26

That man is a fucking twat. If the baby's mother refuses to leave him there's no way the baby's going back to her... Sad

mrsballack · 03/04/2014 21:26

It's sad that she seems to think it's ok to be treated like that. Poor girl

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:26

A female baby too. That man fucking hates women.

Hels20 · 03/04/2014 21:27

I feel so sorry for Emily. Poor girl. I agree, Mrs Ballack - Matthew is coming across pretty badly. You can perhaps see that if Emily left Matthew she would be better off vis a vis SS.

TheScience · 03/04/2014 21:27

I hope someone has made it explicitly clear to Emily that she will have to leave Matthew if she wants her baby back.

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:33

So far, it's really emotional but I think it's balanced

Matthew is making the case against him very clear in a few seconds on camera, I dread to think what it's like when Emily's alone with him

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:36

I agree, Lilka, things do seem to be quite balanced so far. He is really demonstrating why he's a serious concern for SS. I think they do need to make it clear why they're concerned about Emily too (as in she is still in a clearly abusive relationship).

I'm just reading through the thread in _Chat....

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:39

You're braver than me Daffodil. Who's been first to say they'd take them all?

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:40

No one so far, amazingly! There's time yet, there's time yet......

mrsballack · 03/04/2014 21:43

This blonde lady is trying but if she's missing contact and turning up late surely that is showing that she can't offer him the consistency he'll need.

candycoatedwaterdrops · 03/04/2014 21:45

I'm a bit Hmm at people (on the chat thread) wondering if they've offered DV support and housing support as if professionals would not try those sorts of things.

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:45

I liked 'no-one else will ever be his mum' 'You're right' :) Thanks for that SS...

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