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15,000 Kids And Counting - On Channel 4, starting on 3rd April

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OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 27/03/2014 22:10

Heads up folks, Channel 4 are doing a new adoption documentary "15,000 Kids and Counting"

Series Description - Child protection levels in Britain are at a record high. Over 15,000 children were waiting to be adopted in 2013 - twice as many as five years earlier

With unparalleled access to the entire adoption process, this series follows social workers, foster carers, birth parents and adopters as heart-wrenchingly difficult decisions are made about the future of some of Britain's most vulnerable children

Episode 1 is on 3rd April at 9.00PM, is called The Decision

The adoption process begins with the most difficult decision of all: the decision to remove a child from their birth family

The first episode in the series follows the social workers whose job it is to take children away from their parents and recommend whether they should ever return; and meets parents who are desperately fighting to keep their children

Episode 2 a week later - The Search

This episode follows the search for adoptive parents for a two-year-old boy and a three and seven-year-old brother and sister

With the added challenges of having slightly older children, siblings and a child with possible health issues to place, the task for social workers Annette and Jackie is a massive one

With the future of these children in their hands and recently set government targets to meet, they struggle not to become emotionally involved as they strive to find adopters before time runs out

I'll certainly be watching, looks interesting

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MrsDeVere · 02/04/2014 19:18

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DaffodilDandy · 02/04/2014 19:22

I've reported the three other posts....

Sigh.

MrsDeVere · 02/04/2014 19:24

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BerylThePeril44 · 02/04/2014 19:32

I am also dreading the opinions and judgments around this programme....please please let it not feed into all this 'unfair criticism' of adoptive parents, particularly by those who have no idea what its like to take a leap of faith, with an unknown child and make a legal, emotional and financial commitment FOR LIFE!...and I include foster carers and social workers in that group. Its a bit like picking a scab though...I'll have to watch it!

DaffodilDandy · 02/04/2014 19:35

I have no idea, MrsDV, they obviously haven't seen the recent threads where we've discussed not engaging with them. Hmm

OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 02/04/2014 19:38

I'm having fun with the report button tonight Hmm

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OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 02/04/2014 19:41

Everything's deleted now thank goodness

Thanks for the quick response MNHQ

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bberry · 02/04/2014 20:14

Missed the posts!

OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 03/04/2014 12:28

8 and a half hours to go....

Just thought I'd let people know that there are 3 episodes and the third is:

The Transition

The final episode of the series charts the transition from familiar foster home to the unknown of new adopted parents.

As reality sets in, adopters and the children alike discover that the prospect of learning to love and fit in to a family that were once strangers can be daunting, and the stakes are high, with both sides asking the same question: 'Will they like me?'

That'll be an emotional episode. I have to say, I can't imagine letting the a TV crew film those early days of intros and beyond! Hope it's done sensitively

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excitedmamma · 03/04/2014 13:40

guardian article

OneOfOurLilkasIsMissing · 03/04/2014 14:52

Good article excited

Sad though...that they need therapy but can't access it on the NHS. Given that many birth parents are not well off at all, it seems very unfair that this kind of therapy isn't funded for them. I don't see why it shouldn't be

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Italiangreyhound · 03/04/2014 16:22

Totally agree, if they need the therapy to keep their children they should have a chance at it.

Italiangreyhound · 03/04/2014 16:24

I feel this sort of thing (asking or rather telling people to have services like therapy that is not realistically available to them) will only go some way towards making people feel more negative about social services (which is a bad thing). It is totally counter active to the positive image that they may want to portray.

MyFeetAreCold · 03/04/2014 16:43

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Lilka · 03/04/2014 16:51

Very true MyFeet

64x32x24 · 03/04/2014 17:47

I guess the thinking goes, why waste ££ on therapy when it is not likely that they will take anything from it (as they didn't choose to do therapy, but were effectively forced to; most kinds of therapy work best (or only) if people are willing and engaged) - so after the ££ on therapy you get to pay the ££ for LAC on top. Plus the kids in question are older, potentially more damaged, ... kids can't wait to see if therapy turns out to be successful.

Not that I agree. Just saying.

Lilka · 03/04/2014 18:15

I definitely agree that therapy has to be within the childs time scale, which is going to be different depending on the child and their age

I'm thinking more about future children rather than the child who is already in care

Lilka · 03/04/2014 21:00

Right

Here we go

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:03
namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:04

I'm here. Sad

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:04

Ah at least I am now reassured that I am NOT daffodil. Was starting to wonder after last night's thread...

candycoatedwaterdrops · 03/04/2014 21:06

Hello. Nearly qualified social worker here. I also would like to adopt, although not within the next few years given my age (25) and my need to become more financially secure. I hope it's ok to be here? Please do tell me to get lost if you're not comfortable with me being here!

namechangesforthehardstuff · 03/04/2014 21:07

Of course you can be here. Pull up a chair. There's an embarrassment of wine (apparently)

DaffodilDandy · 03/04/2014 21:08

You're relieved to not be me?! I am hurt.

Welcome, Candy, you're more than welcome! Smile

prumarth · 03/04/2014 21:10

I'm hiding! Recording it and tracking all your thoughts instead before I decide to watch or not!

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