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Accused of intimidation, my dds bully!

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MeMudmagnet · 20/04/2010 18:54

I posted a thread on the bullying page before Easter, "Nasty calculating 11yr old bully"

I followed the advice given to me. I've written to the head, who has spoken to both the girls and we have an appointment to meet with the head tomorrow.

I found out from another parent, that when the head spoke to the bully. She accused me of intimidating her! I've apparently been glaring at her and her Sister, pointing at her and threatening her.
I did notice the head was wandering about in the playground before and after school the last couple of days, maybe that was why.

This girl is an accomplished liar and has given my dd a lot of grief, accusing her of all sorts. Now I've got the head involved she's obviously started on me.
What can I do?
Nothing seems to stop this girl!

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compo · 20/04/2010 19:52

have you posted on the original thread?

PixieOnaLeaf · 20/04/2010 19:53

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itsmeitsmeolord · 20/04/2010 19:56

You only have the other parents word for it, if you are concerned then speak directly to the head. If this is true then she would have spoken to you about it.
She is probably more visible at the moment to send a message that she is keeping an eye out, not checking up on you.

MeMudmagnet · 20/04/2010 20:02

I don't know. I'm hoping they will start to realise. But I am worried about what lengths she will go to.
It would seem she can accuse anyone of anything and her mother backs her without question.

She's backed up her lies about dd with an emotional outburst or two, she can be quite convincing, but obviously there is no evidence to back up her claims against me.

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