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Husband wants a DNA test.!

29 replies

strue · 04/03/2010 20:40

I am currently living with my DH ant two DSs. Yet my husband has been demanding a DNA test of our second child, Lexington. Because Lex is "african american" coloured my husband is demamding a DNA test as both of us are white. He just can't accept that Lex is his son because of his colour. my DH has threatend to leave me and the kids, which would leave us with nothing. Lex is both my biological son. I dont know what to do now please help!

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itsmeitsmeolord · 04/03/2010 20:45

Um, don't know what to say. There are other life lines out there.

nowwearefour · 04/03/2010 20:45

is he your dh's son?

rubyslippers · 04/03/2010 20:46

your son has a very unusual name there - you should be wary of posting such personal details

mii · 04/03/2010 20:47

If he is your DHs son give him the DNA test

Then give him his divorce papers

yellowcircle · 04/03/2010 20:47

Do the DNA test.

AnyFucker · 04/03/2010 20:48

please don't use real names in your posts, especially unusual ones that are more readily traceable

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 20:51

Is your other son's teacher the Father?

Milliways · 04/03/2010 20:51

Are all Grandparents & Great-Granpaents white? There are loads of stories online (just google "White Parents Black Child".

I would be horrified if my DH ever doubted, or hinted at doubting my fidelity - don't know if I would get over it TBH.

Agree with others, do the test & then ask him how he intends to make this up to you.

Milliways · 04/03/2010 20:55

Sandra Laing was born black to a white family in Apartheid South Africa!

mathanxiety · 04/03/2010 20:59

Are you in America? Is that why you call your DS's skin tone African American? If you're in America and your ancestors or your DH's ancestors have been there for a few generations, you or he could easily have an unknown African American ancestor. Same thing has happened to Black Americans -- Michelle Robinson Obama had a white slave-owner ancestor for example. I agree it's really hurtful of your H to demand a DNA test if there's no evidence you have ever cheated on him.

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:01

I call troll.

JeMeSouviens · 04/03/2010 21:01

do you want us to feed you here too? As on the baby name thread? Here have one of these

PlumBumMum · 04/03/2010 21:02

Pureasthecolddrivensnow it has already been called up above, in code

PlumBumMum · 04/03/2010 21:03

I wodered what you mean't about the teacher is there another thread?

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:06

by who JeMe? about the teacher

ShadeofViolet · 04/03/2010 21:06

This was on Jeremy Kyle on Tuesday!

PlumBumMum · 04/03/2010 21:08

2nd post

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:08

well, i'm so sorry I didn't get there first

JeMeSouviens · 04/03/2010 21:10

Strue wanted to be fed on Saintly names baby name thread, called us all a bunch of lesbians too.

is it the school holidays over there?

PlumBumMum · 04/03/2010 21:12

sorry wasn't being rude
thanks for link
seems op has dissappeared or maybe you drew her attention to the fact she shouldn't be on her high horse about her fidelity

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:14

er.. yes. I know.

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:14

x-post there

LoveBeingAMummy · 04/03/2010 21:17

I would probably think he know i'd shagged the teacher

itsmeitsmeolord · 04/03/2010 21:53

Strue as in S'true innit.

PureAsTheColdDrivenSnow · 04/03/2010 21:53
Grin