she is just as bad. kiss & tell is so bleargh
making it sound like it was beyond her control.
whatever .. if it helps you sleep at night..
as for the memorial, i would have thought that one would be expected at your wife's memorial service. bit of a no brainer.
don't know why the young lady in question thought he would be after anything other than a shag... his bad behaviour has been splashed all over the papers for the last couple of years