The Gok Thread is Still Alive and Kicking

[mummylin2495]

here e are a nice new thread for us all !! hope you can all find it

i am just going to get a cup of tea back in couple of minutes

tnog where are you ,im getting worried about you now

comes back to thread to see if you might be here now.Tnog please come and talk to me tomorrow when you have a moment.I hate the thought of you being sad,and you know i will always listen to you.You know what they say ,a trouble shared etc.i will check on the hour every hour till i catch up with you from about 11am !!!! goodnight x

Im down a hole

think I will go bak to my alice name

hugs to all

january blues

arrrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

M - sorry for sudden departure last night.

I'm all over the place at the moment and not able to get straight mentally.

Hmm
That doesn't make a whole lot of sense but hopefully you know what I'm trying to say.

I won't go into details mainly because that wouldn't be fair to dh and at the end of the day what are you going to say/do? [although you are very good at being a friendly shoulder]

It's complex, as all relationships are, with their own dynamic that only the two people involved understand.

What really does help me is being able to come on here and laugh for half an hour or whatever.

No discussing major things, trying to put the world to rights, etc, and that's where the scuttle thread was a God send, but things move on, evolve, and that's good, has to be, I don't own exclusive rights to that thread and just because I don't feel comfortable with it anymore I shouldn't make it an issue that I bang on about all the time.

life will continue to limp along with sudden bursts of good times and I'll be fine again.

the other end is tied securely to a rock, if you decide to climb up it

wait I haven't read it all

I've had to register again to post you nanna heads
DH is rambling on about biros to me as I type/read

Thank go d MN format is the same. I was terrified it would all be pages to flip through. Just one long page as normal with lots of ramblings and twitterings.

Jan is shut a downer month (and a very busy one workwise for me - hence why I left, sorry I didn't mention it) anyway...lets all drink lots of coffee and cover ourselves with Dior (or whatever Xmas stuff) you got. I look stunning FWIW. Good job no web cam, the glare would be too much.

I'm thinking that I will upload a picture of DH's new biros later to excite you all.

Q: Why is it true that children brighten up the home?
A: Because they never turn the lights off.

I do love them, but I am glad they are back at school.

shut a downer (such)

such a downer

I'm rambling on my own

I'm going to make another coffee.

i try not to post

then i miss ye all
but i dont know ye

took dog on a very chilly walk, lots of old
dears trying to talk to us,

and feck the housework today

well well well

wish ye all a safe day

Less than 40 posts to push to 1k

joins

wotz on a coffee break

anyone want to come eat cake with us this afternoon

Alice, you look fine.
Lovely dog. I would love one. Do you have to pick up poo there too? I Don't like picking up poo.

What do you do with Donkey poo? Big bags?

Does lissie still have her tea room?

wotz

think that would be three ....ticks

this laptop is so tiny

tis new you know

I may pop in Alice, thanks
VL cream cakes is a must ATM. I need exercise off a few Christmas lbs. I wonder if VL exercise will work?

DH has a tiny new one too.

I borrow it and keep it on my lap at night to surf on. Its' very small.

doyou think dh will notice no housework is being done

house buying

new

old

this country a different country

I want some patience

I'll check in again at 11
coffee calling to me Alice. Catch up later.

snap

I can smell the coffee

take care wotz

nice to see ye

Sorry x post

Very hard and stressful house hunting and moving. I hate it. Love it once it's done. I prefer going to the dentist and that's saying something.

catch up later?

will try and get back on

one hour differences seems to make a lot of differences
on here

ds out of kindergarten eleven thirty our time

take care

i love moving

this was my thirteeth move
destinity...

Thirteen!
As a adult having to do it? Not including the times as a child being dragged around? That's alot.

I want to post. Tnog as you say there is so much that happens in RL to all of us. Of course at time its feels that we can not help as we are here trapped in VL, even if you do or do not want help, but just want to post your troubles. That is the nature of forums like this. AIBU threads for instance are a epitome of it (love or loathe) . But as ml says, just by being here is enough (when you want, need, feel like it). Just by knowing you are there in Wicklow or Alice is walking the dog and that all the others we know are out there, doing their thing (Talcy drinking sherry glasses of rum), is great. And the best thing is no one expects anything in way of dependancy on others here (I really think that, we all manage, we have to). We all tick along, falling, stumbling, skipping, whatever. It's a place to come when you like it.

You all know we all have 'stuff' to manage, be it thoughts in our heads or, limbs that are aching, houses to be hunted, OH's that are a pain in the arse, or jobs to work hard at. My grammar is so bad, my word that was long. Anyway. What I mean - is that, I have no idea about it all.

Did I tell you I hate going to the dentist?