The Gok Thread is Still Alive and Kicking

[mummylin2495]

here e are a nice new thread for us all !! hope you can all find it

well to a degree he is right

Happy is happy wherever

but I think you quite obviously have given it a whirl in Austria and now maybe it's time to try somewhere else

sometimes there has to be some compromise,and you need to reach a point where you can all be happy,its not going to work if one person is so unhappy doing something just to please the other person.Maybe you could stay there for a while xcup ,but you agree you can fly home more often to see your parents,would that help ?

tnog

never talks shit

I just get myself in it

trying to keep everyone happy

nearly threw dd out tonight

tis too hard

she is a child and a women

in two worlds

If you're struggling with where you live it makes coping with day to day problems even harered

you need to feel happy and settled, it's important

HARDER

I guess dh being a step parent is hard too

I have made nearly all the choices for dd

feel I have to stop making choices

even with your dd xcup there has to still be boundaries.She is still getting her education, but becoming so involved with her boyfriend may start to interfere with that.

The children will survive wherever especially zippy

YOU need to be happy or else everything will fall apart

thank you

SO much you two

My head felt like it was so full earlier

that's horrible

when your head feels like it will implode.

i really don know what the answer is for you xcup,only you actually know what it is you will feel happiest with.But you do need to make your dh listen to you.You count as well you know ,and count for a lot,as tnog said the women keep the family running along.

just going to make a cuppa ,green t tnog ?

when we lived in england last dh was working sooooo muh he was barely home

his bosses told so many lies yet he believed them over me

am worried that jumping from country to country

has left me spinning..

had really grave doubts about living her this time

they came true

I just want things to be brighter

so I can stop pestering you two..

I remember feeling like that and going for a hike up a hill when i got to the top I let out a big roary scream

I thought I was all alone and then this fella appeared with his dog

he smiled and nodded

oh yes green would be lovely, M thank you

CC, I like you off-loading it makes me feel less alone.

if I scream here

mil can hear me

feel sort of imposed on

dh doesnt see it

do you ever go through your options with dh?

I mean there must be options

I used to write letters to dh and stick them rounfd the house when ew couldn't talk for arguing

I try

think we are so different

he is in the process of sorting out a new contract

and his latest research has worked...

and his daddy gave him some money for getting his doctoriate

I'd put little boxes for him to tick

To be honest in the end he had no choice but to move

I'd have topped myself id we'd stayed in the city

Oh I do the letters

and he has a chalk message board

have to remember to wipe it clean soon

I wouldn't worry about the money thing

I know you need to stand on your own feet, but finacial help is good and so long as it's no strings attached I'd accept it graciously

but

you don't communicate do you?

why is that?

passes tnog a bone china cup of green tea,ona silver platter with a doille or is it diolle ????

I feel Im being a mug

at the mo,,,

and we have

different standards
different dreams
different religions
different educations
different hobbies
different views
different outlooks

looks at list

oh dear,,,,

lolololol

where's the biscuits?