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How old were you when hen you had your first baby and your last baby?

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AWellTroddenPath · 29/10/2026 21:07

Curious to know answers! I feel like I was quite young in my area for my first - 30… then second was 33. Still wondering about a third but I’m so tired I don’t think I’ll have the energy to do it if I’m any older!

OP posts:
Dorte246 · 31/10/2026 17:36

29, 37, end expecting 18/12 2026 age 40

Perimenopausalmanicmum · 31/10/2026 17:37

21
27
32

Younggranny · 31/10/2026 18:00

18
20
30

SeaSunandSand · 31/10/2026 21:09

28

LifechangingTrickOrTreat · 31/10/2026 22:05

37
40

Eightofus · 31/10/2026 22:07

First at 21, second 24, third 26, fourth at 30 and fifth at 35..... now I'm all done sadly! 😔

MudandMoet · 31/10/2026 22:27

ilikemethewayiam · 31/10/2026 09:24

@MudandMoet Sorry if you’ve already been asked this question, I haven’t RTFT. How would you describe your motherhood experience at both ages?

In all honesty, I do find it harder second time around, mostly as I work now but was able to leave my job and be a SAHM the first time around. I had no mum guilt and all the time and energy in the world. Zero pressure. People always assume it’s easier as ‘I’ve had a baby before’ and say you mellow as you get older but I have totally forgotten what it was like and if anything I’m more worldly wise so not as carefree and mellow as I was back in my early twenties. Saying this, it took me years to get my second and I have to pinch myself every single day that I have her, she’s the light of our lives, the most funny, amazing little character and I have zero regrets.

JenFor · 01/11/2026 01:10

24 for my first, 41 for my second

MrsPositivity1 · 01/11/2026 10:01

36 & 39 & 9 months 😆

Lunaticmess · 01/11/2026 13:04

28 and 31.

Kittycat2mom · 01/11/2026 13:05

34, 36 & 39

Trumpisacunt · 01/11/2026 13:15

Had my first at 18 and my last a week before my 42nd birthday

2026me · 01/11/2026 13:26

24 and 29. Was advised to have children sooner rather than later due to a health condition that could worsen with age and make things harder. Luckily 2 very healthy kids and I found both pregnancies quite easy too. I’m glad I did it at those ages.

weegiemum · 01/11/2026 13:38

1st 29
2nd 31
3rd 32

Umbrella15 · 01/11/2026 16:13

23, 25 and 30

pavementpolice · 01/11/2026 16:17

17 & 34

Holiday24 · 01/11/2026 16:19

32 and 38.

I'm lucky to have had 2 straightforward pregnancies but I'd say the second was actually easier. I guess because all my muscles had already stretched, I didn't get all the aches & pains that I had first time round!

SunsetOverEasterIsland · 01/11/2026 23:27

First (and only) 41

Anonforeddiscussion · Yesterday 00:53

Pearl69 · 30/10/2026 17:57

30
32
36

Snap!

BooseysMom · Yesterday 03:30

Eightofus · 31/10/2026 22:07

First at 21, second 24, third 26, fourth at 30 and fifth at 35..... now I'm all done sadly! 😔

Sadly?! Jesus! You're so lucky you're able to have so many. I had 2 miscarriages then by sheer luck had my one and only at 40. Never was in a position financially or were allowed to have kids where we lived. It's been a nightmare. I would give anything to go back and have at least one more so that my only won't be destined to be alone.

RedHairing · Yesterday 03:32

27, 29, 38, 40, 42 and 46

HelpMebeok · Yesterday 03:59

30 and 32

Hummingbirdz · Yesterday 04:35

27,29,33

Jumpclap · Yesterday 11:32

First at 17 and second at 42

Jumpclap · Yesterday 11:47

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2026 20:59

You win!

I was looking for the winner! 🥇

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