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What do you miss from your past?

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Gottodosomething2026 · 24/10/2026 16:09

My algorithms seem to have been showing a lot of 80s and 90s nostalgia recently and it's really got me wishing for times gone by.

What do you miss from your past? (not people). For me it's:

  • Cheery Christmases with carols, excitement, feeling the Christmas stocking in the dark etc.
  • Walkmans
  • Casette tapes and recording the top 10 to listen to the car
  • Less choice in supermarkets, for holidays, tv channels/services, cars etc - so much easier
  • Less plastic tat
  • Technology that I could keep up with as it was all new and so simple
  • Feeling joy at the simple stuff like Body Shop bath pearls
  • Jelly and ice cream
  • Less unhealthy food
  • triangle crisps (I don't even know what they were called)
  • VHS
  • People being nice to each other as the norm
  • Less red tape and measurement of everything we ever do
  • Common sense
  • Work ethic being the norm
OP posts:
OhForTheWeekend · 27/10/2026 12:37

flat stomach
my health
my ability to consume huge amounts of alcohol and not regret moving my head the next morning.
empty roads*
the ability to do (*see above) and say stupid stuff without it being recorded

Clearingthedecks · 27/10/2026 12:44

Top of the Pops episodes from the 70s, 80s etc are on BBC iplayer at the moment - what a wave of nostalgia watching them brings!

TheAmberKoala · 27/10/2026 12:45

LetGoLetThem1234 · 25/10/2026 06:46

Jobs being easier to secure.

Employers being willing to employ someone and actually train them to do the job they employed them to do.

both of these, also restructures/ redundancies were much rarer 20 years ago. They did happen, but not to every company, every single year.

HeyUpDuckie · 27/10/2026 12:47

Blow up chairs.
Being a kid and not paying bills.

Owamyabab · 27/10/2026 12:51

My Nan

Bellu · 27/10/2026 12:53

I think in general just a freer life, less hemmed in and more relaxed. Easier for things to go a little bit wrong, or muck up a little bit without your whole life going to complete hell. I mooched around just figuring life out and prodding the world a bit and had the space and time to do that.

I worked cash in hand for a pittance and spent it without worrying very much. If I fell out with my boss I just got a new boss. It was all less of a big deal. Obviously some people were highly anxious about things but they were unusual and troubled, not the norm.

Rent was low and my bills were too. Other things, like new clothes, were very expensive but it was more like necessary things (shelter, food, heat) were affordable and unnecessary things were expensive, which is the opposite of now where you can afford a computer more powerful than a NASA mainframe but you can't afford to live in a house or have a family.

There's lots I don't miss, but I do feel kids now have been imprisoned in a world built by the middle classes, which is ever so much better according to them but honestly looks awful to me. Just being locked in your house all the time, or driven from one organised activity to another, or to school to be simultaneously hectored and indulged in a bewildering duet. It looks awful. They look like hostages.

Crikeyalmighty · 27/10/2026 18:28

Bellu · 27/10/2026 12:53

I think in general just a freer life, less hemmed in and more relaxed. Easier for things to go a little bit wrong, or muck up a little bit without your whole life going to complete hell. I mooched around just figuring life out and prodding the world a bit and had the space and time to do that.

I worked cash in hand for a pittance and spent it without worrying very much. If I fell out with my boss I just got a new boss. It was all less of a big deal. Obviously some people were highly anxious about things but they were unusual and troubled, not the norm.

Rent was low and my bills were too. Other things, like new clothes, were very expensive but it was more like necessary things (shelter, food, heat) were affordable and unnecessary things were expensive, which is the opposite of now where you can afford a computer more powerful than a NASA mainframe but you can't afford to live in a house or have a family.

There's lots I don't miss, but I do feel kids now have been imprisoned in a world built by the middle classes, which is ever so much better according to them but honestly looks awful to me. Just being locked in your house all the time, or driven from one organised activity to another, or to school to be simultaneously hectored and indulged in a bewildering duet. It looks awful. They look like hostages.

I totally get all this -

Crikeyalmighty · 27/10/2026 18:31

PistachioTiramisu · 27/10/2026 09:11

Going Christmas shopping in my local town on a Saturday afternoon in December with frosty air and the Salvation Army Bank playing carols (don't they do that any more?).

We def still get this in Bath - along with some amazing local mini choirs

ImWearingPantaloons · 27/10/2026 19:01

Life was simpler as we knew less, and had less.

We worried about fewer things as a result, I’m convinced of it.

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