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If someone has asked you pop round at tea time

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MyDuvetDay · 10/10/2026 15:09

What time are you popping round?

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JeatherLacket · 11/10/2026 09:57

quequerido · 11/10/2026 09:54

Except it’s not in the South East. Teatime is a cup of tea and some cake / biscuits at about 3 or 4 pm.

I’ve never in my life called the evening meal tea and I’ve never heard it referred to as Tea except on TV

Everyone in my family calls the evening meal tea, it's almost as if not everyone is the same, who knew 😁

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 11/10/2026 10:04

5-ish…but I’d also ask what time they’d like me there. Because I’m not a twat.

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/10/2026 10:04

JeatherLacket · 11/10/2026 09:55

It's not perdantic, it's what any normal person would do to make sure they arrive at the expected time isn't it?

Why do people complicate life when a couple of words would remove any confusion?

I've seen these threads before and I always wonder why the OP either doesn't ask or if they are the inviter say an actual time

Baffling 😂

I answered tongue in cheek (although I am pedantic) because look how many people are guessing and arguing the toss instead of asking what is meant by 'tea time'.

CloudyWithAChanceOfCustard · 11/10/2026 10:08

Dontevenlookatme · 10/10/2026 16:10

“Teatime” is not afternoon tea, it’s early dinner, so I’d think they meant 5 ish onwards, earlier if there are small children involved. I’d have to ask.

It’s not ‘early dinner’ for half the country. It’s simply our evening meal…as you well know, which we eat at whatever time we eat our evening meal!

JeatherLacket · 11/10/2026 10:08

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/10/2026 10:04

I answered tongue in cheek (although I am pedantic) because look how many people are guessing and arguing the toss instead of asking what is meant by 'tea time'.

Its funny to me, it's the same when someone asks about next Monday v this Monday. Why does it matter if people have different views when there's an easy way to find out, surely everyone knows there's scope for misunderstanding

TheThirteenthFairy · 11/10/2026 10:13

JeatherLacket · 11/10/2026 10:08

Its funny to me, it's the same when someone asks about next Monday v this Monday. Why does it matter if people have different views when there's an easy way to find out, surely everyone knows there's scope for misunderstanding

Exactly!

SeeIdontmindbeingthebadguy · 11/10/2026 10:22

3.30 in this house although ironically none of us drink tea and it’s really coffee time

Sunbringer · 11/10/2026 10:39

Autumnalhibernationisthedream · 11/10/2026 09:40

This is interesting as I’d say dinner 5-6, tea about 7!!!

Are you mistaking tea with supper?

DinoLil · 11/10/2026 10:41

5pm

Autumnalhibernationisthedream · 11/10/2026 11:36

Sunbringer

possibly! In Ireland and I think tea could be supper for us! (Yes I know loads of Irish people will now tell me I’m crazy😅)

x2boys · 11/10/2026 13:14

All these faux posters pretending not to know wether its a drink or meal 🙄
I live in Greater manchester
I call my evening meal tea
But im well aware people in other parts of the uk call it Dinner,supper etc.

ElanaohElana · 11/10/2026 13:15

I’d guess 4/5pm but I would check because it’s very ambiguous

Siennadollface · 11/10/2026 13:16

throwaway3749574 · 10/10/2026 15:18

I’d clarify “cup of tea - time” (4pm) or tea/dinner time (5/6pm)

Agree.
For me now I would say tea is at 5/5.30 ish, meaning my evening meal.
However as a child I had a very posh friend and tea very definitely meant a slice of cake or similar, at 4ish, with their nanny/housekeeper.

I do not live in that world lol

Cheersmedears123 · 11/10/2026 13:53

I would expect to turn up at around 7pm. Dinner and tea are the same thing to me.

susiedaisy1912 · 11/10/2026 13:55

Pop round as in call in to collect something as opposed to having food ? I would say between 5-6pm.

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