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What did you/your family consider a treat growing up that really wasn’t?

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ClassicStripe · 23/09/2026 19:53

I’ve just randomly remembered that when I was younger me and my sister thought it was the most amazing treat to have our mum’s bath water after she was finished with it. She didn’t even use bubble bath so it was literally just lukewarm water but we absolutely loved it. This was in the early 90’s and we had regular hot warm bubble baths which makes it even stranger that we were so pleased by using mum’s old water!

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goingtotown · 24/09/2026 07:51

A bottle of Tizer to share on Sunday. 1960s
Watching Sunday Night at the London Palladium on our black & white TV

DriveMeCrazy1974 · 24/09/2026 07:52

My treat was going to the local shop on a Saturday evening when I stayed with my nan and gramp and getting a packet of Golden Wonder Salt and Vinegar Crisps, a small packet of Iced Gems and a can of fizzy drink. Seemed like the best thing in the world then, don't think today's kids would be so impressed by it!

scalt · 24/09/2026 07:53

The “flying” game, which I’ve mentioned on other threads, and was only done on special occasions such as birthdays or Christmas. In turn, we children were blindfolded so we couldn’t see a thing, taken into the garden, sat in a chair, which was then lifted up, and we were told we were flying, with the tiny scenery below described. We were only a few inches up, but we didn’t know that, because we couldn’t see! Grin It really felt like flying.

user293948849167 · 24/09/2026 07:55

mondrianblue · 23/09/2026 22:59

Anyone remember when pasta was still seen as quite exotic?! I was discussing this with my DH recently and he refused to believe/remember that in our 80s childhoods it wasn’t the family dinner staple it is now! Plus I grew up in central London and he was in the rural midlands, so it doesn’t quite track that his environment was much more cosmopolitan 😂

Also remember stopping at Little Chefs on holiday and thinking they were utterly incredible!

Yes! Grew up in Wales in the 80s and my mum was given some spaghetti as a gift by someone who had been to Italy on holiday! We had never seen such a thing (it was the super long kind so looked exciting).
She was too scared to cook it for about a year until we begged her then she had to find a recipe for new fangled “spaghetti bolognese”, we thought it was ultimate sophistication

Elsvieta · 24/09/2026 07:56

I love how often Vienetta's coming up. My granddad would rave about how delicious they were. I quite liked them, still would I daresay (ice cream, what's not to like) but I remember that very thin chocolate could go into shards sharp enough to occasionally cut your mouth. Insufficient defrosting? But leave it til the chocolate was softer and the ice cream would have been melted....?

Lots of stuff here bringing up memories of stuff I didn't much like (evap mixing with the juice from tinned fruit, ick) but it wouldn't have entered my head to not eat it anyway. And I wasn't ever punished for not clearing my plate or anything like that. But it was just how it was then, at home and school - sometimes you got what you liked, sometimes you didn't. And you'd just go ugh, fish fingers (or whatever) - and eat them. I don't remember protesting or feeling hard done by or anything - that was just how life was. Food you didn't much like was like having to do homework or go to the dentist or rain when you wanted to be out playing - that's life, sometimes you don't get what you want. So getting what you did like was the "treat".

Notontimeagain · 24/09/2026 07:57

Waiting for the crusty end of the baguette when my mum cut the bread up. Tough and inedible, but such a treat.

drspouse · 24/09/2026 07:58

Also Gen X - the Wimpy bar!

Laiste · 24/09/2026 07:59

I remember now also - as a kid i used to know exactly which teaspoon was the right size to use to nick the cream out of the top of a milk bottle 🤣

Massive treat but a sneaky one. I had to time it right. I'd get in trouble if caught!

TwinklySquid · 24/09/2026 08:02

When us kids went to our grandparents we got those fondant fancies and Battenberg cake. They were bright pink/yellow and I thought they were the height of sophistication .

My grandparents died a few years ago and I did buy them afterwards. They were so sweet! I can’t believe I ate them.

vix3rd · 24/09/2026 08:04

My mum's uncle owned a butchers shop and it was considered a great treat to go and visit the shop and see him making mince.

An even bigger treat was getting to go into the deep freeze & see the sides of beef hanging up.

We were easy pleased.

Girlintheframe · 24/09/2026 08:04

Artic roll with bananas and cream

MagnoliaTreeBlossom · 24/09/2026 08:06

A spoonful of malt extract after dinner.

Not a treat as such but a daily routine and it was brilliant watching my mum dip and twirl the spoon, loading it up for us. Four spoons for me and my siblings and she mixed up the order so you didn't know if you would be served first, last or in the middle. Simple times and happy memories.

Dorothyperky · 24/09/2026 08:08

We had £1 on a Thursday when my dad got paid to buy all our treats for the week. I used to buy yoghurt and butterscotch angel delight.
I didn't eat chocolate so I bought grapes.
I had to hide the lot from older siblings.

Laiste · 24/09/2026 08:09

drspouse · 24/09/2026 07:58

Also Gen X - the Wimpy bar!

Yep.

In the 80s me and my best mate used to make a cup of tea each in wimpys (Ealing broadway) last a whole rainy sunday afternoon! People watching in the window seats.

50p i think. Usually paid for in small change.

Advocodo · 24/09/2026 08:10

A penguin chocolate bar on a Sunday!

ThatBoilsMyBagels · 24/09/2026 08:13

Watching TV when we stayed at our grandparents' as we weren't allowed a TV.

Summerlovingtheraspberries · 24/09/2026 08:13

Any sort of fizzy pop.
Ice cream from the ice cream van.
A bottle of coke and a packet of crisps bought from the pub when mum and dad left after a night out.
A duvet instead of blankets.
Bubble bath.
A warm, waterproof coat.

coldliveroil · 24/09/2026 08:25

Heinz ketchup in my stocking.

DozyCrow · 24/09/2026 08:30

A few more...

Being allowed to stick the Green Shield Stamps in the book

Going to Saturday morning cinema and collecting the alphabet badges

My dad bringing home large conkers. He came home very early from a night shift and would collect them from the ground under the big tree on the corner. In those days we were allowed to play conkers at school.

Someone giving you a penny for the Guy you'd spent weeks making, when you were eventually allowed to wheel it round the neighbourhood in a wheelbarrow

Helping mum push bits of cooked meat through the mincer that screwed onto the edge of the counter top, and being allowed to turn the handle

Thegirlwhowent · 24/09/2026 08:30

Being taken to the Co-op cafe by my grandma. It only happened a handful of times. My parents never took us to any cafe and we never ate out.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 24/09/2026 08:39

Olive123456 · 23/09/2026 23:18

We didn't really get sweets because we were poor. Me and my brother were allowed to take it in turns to fill up the co-op saving stamp book and I generally redeemed mine to buy a huge chocolate bar. Other than that I used to sneak some of the doggy chocolate drops when I visited my friends house.

I used to sneak cat treats. There used to be these cheesy ones and they were really nice. My dad caught me once and I tried to say I was checking they were in date 😭

user1464187087 · 24/09/2026 08:40

PoliteSquid · 23/09/2026 21:58

Yes!!!! Always on Mondays - I think the day my mum went to the post office for the child benefit. Me and my brother used to see who could make it last the week 🤣

Our pick and mix was in the post office. Mine didn't last me an hour though.
I can't even describe how happy a few cheap sweets made me. 😀
Good days PoliteSquid.

Blueberrybonanza · 24/09/2026 08:41

Angel delight or a ski yoghurt

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 24/09/2026 08:45

Also - going in my grandads car with no seat belt… I used to love it but now as a mum I would go fucking mental!

“Fairy pasta” which was pasta with beet sauce. Idk what else was in the sauce but it was obviously bright pink and my mum used to say it was made by fairies and I would just eat loads of it.

honeylulu · 24/09/2026 08:45

Bubble Bath. We used to get a bottle of Miss Matey or Santa Matey (that one isn't around any more) in our Christmas stockings and it was so exciting. We didn't get to use bubble bath any other time of year unless an auntie gave a bath set for a birthday etc.

For several years I did the Matey tradition with my kids but gave up a couple of years ago as realised it was quite "meh" - there is always bubble bath in the house, it just gets ordered with the Tesco shop.

Coca cola, only on special occasions like a birthday. We usually gave some in the house and my kids can take it or leave it, usually preferring water!

This is an odd one - if we were good at the dentist and he said we were looking after our teeth nicely, our mum would take us to the shop afterwards and let us choose ten penny sweets. I was an adult before I realised the strange nature of this gesture. It was a real treat though as we didn't get sweets routinely. Some of the "penny sweets" were actually half pence so if you planned carefully you could get more than ten!

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