Sexual cleanliness questionability

[Musetotheangels]

So you invite someone to be your long term house guest, a sibling, knowing their sexual history, while they get back on their feet after falling out with their father, who they were living with. But ask that they have an std test as you know they have had unprotected sex with approx 20 partners total (some unprtected) and this makes you feel uncomfortable about catching something from a shared bathroom. Is it ok after 3 weeks of them not getting tested, or showing signs of getting tested, to ask them to use a different bathroom/toilet to you and your partner?

Yabu

Is this a joke?

What exactly do you think you might catch from them in a shared bathroom? Have you read up on this? My understanding (background in health research) is that it's vanishingly unlikely. Eg essexsexualhealthservice.org.uk/can-you-catch-an-sti-from-a-towel-toilet-seat-or-hot-tub/

It does sound like you want to treat your sibling as "unclean". Encouraging them to get checked for their own benefit and health is sensible, but having put that out there, please don't keep shaming them.

grow up

No this is awful. Maybe you shouldn’t have invited them to stay if this is how you feel.

Not sure if I have got wrong end of stock but this house guest, it is someone you want to be your lover?

You cannot catch an STI from sharing a bathroom. If they are using your towels or not cleaning the bathroom, that would be not okay, but don't use made up science on them.

If you have multiple toilets and bathrooms anyway do you need to share?

You want your sibling to have an STI test before you share a bathroom with them? Yes YABU! And a weirdo

What do you think you could possibly’catch’ from sharing a bathroom?

sounds pretty unreasonable to me asking/demanding a std test.

unless I’m missing something? If so I apologise

Not many people want their sibling to be their lover

A reverse?

Unless your partner is shagging them YABU

Vd from the toilet seat..it could happen
Anyone else remember that one from school
40+years ago at least
😁

Well it sounds as though you disapprove of your sibling’s sexual behaviour and this is your way of making a point about it.

Because you must surely know you’re not going to catch an STI from bathroom surfaces. One assumes and very much hopes you’re not going to mingle sexual fluids with your sibling.

I think having this conversation with them is a sure fire way to damage your relationship. (Although if you are concerned about their health, it’s probably not unreasonable to suggest they get tested. But not for your benefit- for theirs).

If you don’t want to catch a sexually transmitted disease from them then don’t have sex with them.

You're not serious? You're an adult actually asking this ridiculous question? Why are you having them to stay when you clearly view them to be riddled with something?

MN gets more bizarre by the day

Do you think that everyone in gym bathrooms/showers (& gyms have public liability) or uni halls have STI tests to be able to use them? Offices with bathrooms?

🤣

Is this a reverse? Are you being asked to get an STD test?

Is this a reverse? If not then you are seriously paranoid.

It's that old joke about VD and toilet seats ..., I can only remember the punchline 'Why? Were you chewing it?'

I presume your not planning on having sex with your sibling so I think your quite safe from any STDs

Oh, well, Sunday evening brings out all the odd posts. Erm…you can’t catch an STD from a loo seat or sharing a bathroom. Unless you think your sibling might want to use your toothbrush to style their pubes, maybe? 🤷‍♀️

It's Monday 😄