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Taking a child to a breast screening appointment, would the hospital allow it?

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EarlyAppointment · 11/09/2026 13:30

Had anyone taken a child to a breast screening appt (2ww referral) and the hospital have been ok with them just sitting in the waiting area ?

Ive been given a very early appt next Thursday but have absolutely nobody to have DS (9) so id have to take him with me and take him into school late afterwards. I can’t
get hold of the clinic to ask (will keep trying though) .

He would just sit quietly and wait so I think it will be ok?

OP posts:
BashfulClam · 11/09/2026 23:17

We I had mine I saw the Dr first who examined me, then I was taken to a different area for a mammogram then an ultrasound. I didn’t return to the original waiting room until 3 hours later. Would he no on fit 3 hours? What if he needs the loo and there is no one to help by telling him where ot is etc?

1234Molly · 11/09/2026 23:21

OP, good luck for the appointment and I hope all turns out well for you.

BillieWiper · 12/09/2026 08:39

viques · 11/09/2026 22:58

It’s not really the child sitting in the waiting room that is the real issue though is it, though it is likely he could end up missing a whole morning of school because of a possibly very long appointment. It is the thought that the OP might get bad news which she would prefer to be able to think about for a few hours first before facing her nine year old, and him seeing her very upset.

Yeah I guess. I mean when I went they told me there was nothing wrong. But if there was something wrong I don't think they can identify it as cancer or what stage cancer on the spot. So they wouldn't actually be able to tell her anything really bad. They wouldn't say it in front of the kid anyway. So the Mum just needs to be neutral about their feelings while they're there.

viques · 12/09/2026 09:22

Easier said than done to be " neutral" if you have been given bad news.

KiwiFall · 12/09/2026 10:18

BillieWiper · 12/09/2026 08:39

Yeah I guess. I mean when I went they told me there was nothing wrong. But if there was something wrong I don't think they can identify it as cancer or what stage cancer on the spot. So they wouldn't actually be able to tell her anything really bad. They wouldn't say it in front of the kid anyway. So the Mum just needs to be neutral about their feelings while they're there.

They told me on the spot. After all scans, they did a fine needle test. Never gives a false positive and mine was positive. I was then taken to see the macmillan nurse the same day.

BillieWiper · 12/09/2026 10:51

KiwiFall · 12/09/2026 10:18

They told me on the spot. After all scans, they did a fine needle test. Never gives a false positive and mine was positive. I was then taken to see the macmillan nurse the same day.

Ah ok. I guess it does vary depending on what's wrong. Someone I know had to wait to get results for a couple of days. But that was quite a long time ago.
I hope you're better now? X

KiwiFall · 12/09/2026 12:28

BillieWiper · 12/09/2026 10:51

Ah ok. I guess it does vary depending on what's wrong. Someone I know had to wait to get results for a couple of days. But that was quite a long time ago.
I hope you're better now? X

Thank you I am. Sounds like it differs between hospitals as to whether you are told (and what you are told) on the day x

Isobel201 · 12/09/2026 16:58

Thanks for the messages, I haven't been to a breast screening clinic yet so I wasn't sure. Hopefully the OP will find a solution to her problem.

imanastronaut · 12/09/2026 23:12

1234Molly · 11/09/2026 23:02

What a nasty & irrational post.

No it’s absolutely true. There are some places you don’t take children. Including this sort of appointment.

1234Molly · 13/09/2026 00:21

imanastronaut · 12/09/2026 23:12

No it’s absolutely true. There are some places you don’t take children. Including this sort of appointment.

And yet others managed to say that without being nasty to the worried OP. If you can’t be kind when responding to someone obviously distressed don’t post.

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