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Would you send your 6/7 year old child to a woodland party in December?

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OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 19:51

If your 6/7 year old (Year 2) was invited to a den building party in the woods in mid December.... Would you say yes?

DD is desperate for a birthday party in the woods where they can build dens, do s'mores, play on rope swings etc and have pass the parcel round the camp fire. That kind of thing. We'd have hotdogs for food.

However her birthday is 19 December. So would do party weekend before like the Saturday afternoon, 1-3 that kind of time..

Would be in our private woods behind the house, so no issues of access etc it's a contained area. It has a campfire circle already. Can easily get a gazebo through for rain....

Would you think adults would need to stay? I
Do you think I'm mad even contemplating this??

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OhNoooooooooooooooo · 09/09/2026 15:16

Jembot · 09/09/2026 12:09

My son has the same birthday and we've had nearly 100% attendance at his parties.I think it suits a lot of parents to drop their kids off for a couple of hours and do some last minute shopping or whatever. So I would not invite many more than you want to come.

Also I would give them an opportunity to go back to the house for the loo. Maybe take a group of anyone who wants to go, an hour or so in. I think that would be logistically easier and also kinder to 6/7 year old girls who have not necessarily been taught how to manage with jeans, potentially tights under jeans for warmth etc and are used to weeing behind a locked door with this group.

A friend of mine did a woodland party for 7 year olds and three of them ran off and hid. Properly hid, for hours. They didn't even come out when their parents arrived. But it sounds like this is a more contained area so you are not going to have that problem.

These kids that would come are good kids. We know them all their parents and siblings.names etc

Plus the likely ones to do a runner won't even be invited because they're awful and I won't invite horrible kids to anything 😂😂

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Swiftsmith · 09/09/2026 16:02

Yes, but I am a forest school leader and sent my children to a fully outdoor nursery.

ThisWiseRobin · 09/09/2026 16:05

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 19:51

If your 6/7 year old (Year 2) was invited to a den building party in the woods in mid December.... Would you say yes?

DD is desperate for a birthday party in the woods where they can build dens, do s'mores, play on rope swings etc and have pass the parcel round the camp fire. That kind of thing. We'd have hotdogs for food.

However her birthday is 19 December. So would do party weekend before like the Saturday afternoon, 1-3 that kind of time..

Would be in our private woods behind the house, so no issues of access etc it's a contained area. It has a campfire circle already. Can easily get a gazebo through for rain....

Would you think adults would need to stay? I
Do you think I'm mad even contemplating this??

Can I message you my number....I will be there. Sounds brilliant. Blankets, fire, etc and just put the gazebo up days before so the ground is dry.

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Smoggy1 · 09/09/2026 17:11

I would have murdered someone to do that when I was 7. I loved that sort of thing. Still kinda do. Can I come?

StinkerTroll · 10/09/2026 09:50

One of the best parties we had was in woodland! Sounds awesome, go for it, just make sure you put a note on the invites to ensure everyone is suitably dressed!

Persephonia1966 · 10/09/2026 10:05

OhNoooooooooooooooo · 07/09/2026 20:01

I suppose if it looks like torrential rain then a back up might be needed.

I shall ponder the choices seeing on how many people "sign up"...

In my experience kids don't mind getting wet/muddy but hate the consequences of being wet. So the happy abandon of charging around in torrential rain refusing to keep their rain hat on naturally segues into several hours of crying that they are cold, that their feet feel squishy etc. So any bad weather back up plan would ideally involve having space indoors to get warm and dry and drink hot chocolate etc. The "no bad weather only bad clothing" rule applies less to small children as they have an annoying habit of removing things like raincoats and trying to keep a large number of small children appropriate dressed in a downpour is a particular type of hell.

Other than that I think it's a wonderful idea. If the weather is clear it will be great. If it isn't it will still be doable but as I said I think you will need to include indoor time for everyone to get dry etc and therefore also accept this will mean a muddy house.

ARingtoit · 12/09/2026 20:08

Yes. Will be great fun!

Stinkybooks · 12/09/2026 22:33

backformoreofthesame · 07/09/2026 20:51

Could you not have the idea as a special treat if she’s done something good that can be done on a good forecast on the summer ? Like “good school report” and you can have some friends for a play date party ?

How would that help? potentially a hot day. that doesn’t sound like much fun. Summer downpours are also a thing.
Obviously it’s typically cold in December but children running around for two hours are unlikely to be cold. Adults - that’s a perfect reason to put thermal leggings and vest underneath regular clothing. Drink hot chocolate and stand by the fire. A couple of hours outside in December isn’t going to break anyone!

It sounds amazing op. I’d definitely bring my kids and would volunteer to stay as a helper.

YorkshireFrench · 13/09/2026 07:37

My daughter (now 28!) also has a birthday in December. For her 8th birthday I did a pirate treasure hunt through the woods with almost 30 kids.
They all loved it and it was talked of as the best birthday party for years after...
Go for it, some parents might be horrified but the kids will really enjoy it!

JoB1kenobi · 13/09/2026 07:38

Sounds great, zero reason why I wouldn’t.

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